Dinner with the devil
Ajadi regretted ever marrying this woman, who beats him at the slightest provocation. He wasn’t so tall and strong like his wife; he was skinny. At times he would wonder if it was a woman he got married to and shakes his head regretfully for his wrong choice.
When your relationship is failing
Sometimes relationships should dissolve because you were not a match from the get-go. For myself, I often felt unloved and unwanted, and clung to relationships that were not a match for me longer than I should have.
Blessed is any woman, who recognises the ‘favour’ in her life and actually appreciates such, happiness will never be far from such a woman. But a foolish woman is the one that would readily trade substance for some ephemeral settings...
Too little, too late
After I dropped the bombshell and announced the real reason behind my unannounced visit, Tunji gave me a look of disgust that was followed by a moment of awkward silence.
“There is no leverage from her”
Dear Nimi, I have two close friends that are both expecting me to propose to them. But my confusion is that I don't really know which to go for. Let’s talk about them individually. Lady C is 24 years old and has been my friend for close to 4 years. She is from a very…
Flash in the pan
However, my overactive conscience refused to be silenced. Chigozie really needed my help and it was unfair to deprive him of a once in a lifetime opportunity simply because I wanted to win back Tunji’s heart.
There are a lot of men that can be there for a woman in their own way (even as friends) but ladies frighten the hell out of such men by constantly pushing for marriage.
Any unified relationship requires the ‘T’ word
Year ago, while earning my degree in Psychology, I ended up having to endure the Trust Fall test in a few team building and social psychology exercises.
That was why when he called three times in a row that Sunday evening, I was terribly confused. I knew whatever he was calling me for was serious and for some reason I knew it was going to open Pandora’s Box....