The International Visitor Leadership Programme Alumni Association of Nigeria, operating under the auspices of the US Consulate in Lagos, last week, issued a stern warning to young male students about the dangers of cybercrime and drug abuse.
This cautionary message was delivered during a special event, tagged: “The Conversation: An Open Talk with Boys,” held at Lagos City Senior College in the Yaba area of the state.
The occasion, commemorating the International Day of the Boy Child, saw experts from various fields addressing a diverse group of secondary school boys.
Chairman IVLPAAN Board of Trustees and Deputy Commandant, Nigeria Drug Law Enforcement Agency, Lagos Command, Lambert Nor, advised the students to learn to reject pressures related to drug abuse.
He stressed that drug abuse, beyond its immediate allure, carried severe physical, psychological, economic, and social consequences
Speaking on the topic, “Crafting a well-rounded boy: preparation for a life of optimal performance and continuous growth”, Finbarr Aniekeme urged the boys to strive for excellence and steer clear of negative influences.
He emphasised the significance of self-belief, discipline, and avoiding vices.
Shola Owonikoko, a development practitioner, spoke on the topic “Guiding boys through adolescence: Self-development principles and the perils of cybercrime,” emphasising that regardless of their background, every individual has the potential for greatness.
He said, “You can be whatever you choose to be, either good or bad, but becoming the good part is profitable. That you were not born with a silver spoon does not mean you cannot be anywhere you want in the world. Your background is not enough to limit you from becoming what you want to be. Education is the best thing you can spend your time doing now because it structures your life and configures your mind.
Owonikoko also urged them to shun cultism, betting, drug use and cybercrime while noting that it could limit their future.
Also speaking on the topic, “Cultivating Domestic and Social Etiquette: Essential Skills for a Fulfilling Boyhood”, Saudat Salami, admonished the students on time management.
Commenting on the programme, President, IVLP Alumni Association, Adedayo Oketola, said: “In social intervention, much attention has been directed towards empowering women and girls due to the historical neglect they have endured. However, there’s been a noticeable gap in support for young boys. In addressing one issue, we’ve inadvertently left another unattended – the empowerment of boys.
“In response, we’ve launched The Conversation: An Open Dialogue with Boys, an inclusive platform to equip boys with essential knowledge and resilience to navigate life challenges, including substance abuse, cybercrime, and other societal pitfalls. The conversation will continue through other programmes we are planning for schoolboys.”
