Slay or Stay? Navigating wedding asoebi trend without being broke

Nigerian weddings are not just events; they’re blockbusters, complete with drama, sequins, and a cast of stylish guests ready to outshine each other. From the grand entrance of the bride to the big boys spraying cash like confetti, it’s all vibes and glory until you check your bank account.

This December, the wedding invitations are flying in faster than end of the year sales notifications. With every wedding comes the asoebi alert, and you’re asking yourself: “Do I slay, or do I stay?” Don’t worry—we’re here to help you keep your owambe game strong without slaying your wallet.

December is practically Nigeria’s unofficial National party Month. Everyone is tying the knot, from childhood friends to that office colleague who barely says “hi.”

Add Christmas parties, family gatherings, and reunions, and it’s party after party. While the excitement is unmatched, the expenses can be overwhelming. This is why partying with a budget is not just smart—it’s survival.

How to slay without suffering

The first is to prioritise. Not every invite needs your RSVP. Choose weddings that matter most, like close friends or family. For the others, send a lovely gift (within budget!) and warm congratulations. After all, it’s the thought that counts, not the asoebi.

2. Opt for fabric sharing

Fabric sharing is the ultimate hack! Split that pricey asoebi fabric with a friend and create two unique styles. You’ll save cash and still look pepper dem at the wedding.

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3. Repurpose old outfits with confidence

That stunning dress from two weddings ago? Bring it out, switch up the accessories, and watch it shine like new. Trust me, nobody is tracking your wardrobe on Instagram. If they are, they need to find a new hobby.

4. Choose affordable tailors

Beware of tailors who charge more than the asoebi itself! Opt for simple, chic designs that won’t have you crying over what I ordered vs. what I got. The goal is to look stylish, not stressed.

5. Rent, don’t buy

Accessories like bags, shoes, and jewelry don’t have to break the bank. Look for rental services where you can rock designer looks without paying designer prices. Why buy when you can borrow and still slay?

6. Limit the spray money

We all love to spray naira notes like confetti, but remember, sapa no dey look face. Set a budget for your spraying spree. Whether it’s ₦2,000 or ₦20,000, stick to it. It’s the thought (and the dance moves) that count.

Nigerian weddings are magical, chaotic, and unforgettable. While the asoebi culture brings people together in style, it doesn’t have to bring financial heartbreak. With a little creativity, some budget-friendly tips, and the confidence to rock what you’ve got, you can slay every event without stress.

So, next time the asoebi group chat lights up, don’t panic. You’ve got this. Slay smart, dance hard, and remember: Your presence is the real pepper.