Marriage thrives on shared vision, not just feelings — Marriage & Money Summit 1.0 convener, Dr Afolabi

The Convener of the Marriage & Money Summit 1.0, Dr Adetutu Afolabi, has underscored the importance of having a clear vision as the foundation of marriage rather than relying solely on emotions.

She noted that financial harmony, emotional intelligence, and a focus on legacy are not optional additions but the core foundations of enduring relationships.

According to Dr Afolabi, couples who align their relationships with shared goals and purpose are more likely to experience lasting success and fulfilment.

Speaking at the summit, Afolabi further explained that couples must understand the importance of shared purpose in building a lasting union. According to her, when partners align their visions and set mutual goals, they create a sense of direction that helps them navigate challenges and make decisions rooted in understanding rather than impulse.

She emphasised that emotional connection alone, while important, cannot sustain a marriage without intentional planning, transparency, and a clear sense of where the relationship is headed.

While noting that money remains one of the most misunderstood yet crucial aspects of marriage, the convener urged couples to cultivate financial literacy and openness about their financial habits, dreams, and fears.

She maintained that when couples treat finances as a partnership project—built on trust, respect, and shared values—they not only secure their economic stability but also strengthen their emotional bond.

She posited that a marriage anchored in vision, wisdom, and sound financial practices will stand the test of time and serve as a model for future generations.

In her research paper presentation, ‘Winning in the Bedroom and the Boardroom’, Dr Afolabi presented evidence showing that self-efficacy, amplified by spousal support, directly influences marital satisfaction and entrepreneurial success positively.

Dr Afolabi’s leadership combines spiritual insight with academic rigour, drawing both church leaders and economic planners into the conversation.

The summit has now become the launch pad for a broader body of work, including research publications, podcasts, workshops, and policy conversations.

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