Monica Omorodion Swaida Unveils Powerful Memoir on Japa Experience

Nigerian-American creative Monica Omorodion Swaida has unveiled a powerful memoir, They Love You Until You Start Thinking for Yourself, offering a candid glimpse into the challenges and triumphs of her japa journey.
In this thought-provoking autobiography, Swaida shares her personal experiences as an immigrant teenager navigating a new culture, emphasizing the unwavering determination and resilience required to achieve success. More than just a memoir, They Love You Until You Start Thinking for Yourself is a call to action, inspiring readers to break free from limitations and pursue their dreams. The book is available on Amazon.
Swaida offers raw and relatable insights for those planning to japa.
Swaida doesn’t shy away from the harsh realities of japa, candidly admitting, “My greatest decision was to Japa. I have absolutely no regrets. But if you think of leaving a piece of cake, then think again. It is very tough out there.”
She paints a vivid picture of the potential hardships, including the possibility of living on the streets, going hungry, and facing disappointment. Yet, she remains steadfast in her belief that with unwavering determination and hard work, success is attainable.
“In the end, if your end game is to win, then be prepared not to be lazy! I work about 14 hours daily. Many die on their way out and many succeed. It’s crazy out there, but it is also, so lovely,” Swaida noted about her memoir.

They Love You Until You Start Thinking for Yourself is more than just a personal narrative. It’s a bridge between worlds, fostering understanding and empathy. Swaida’s travels to over thirty countries have broadened her perspective, allowing her to appreciate the beauty and diversity of human experiences. She encourages readers to embrace open-mindedness and challenge preconceptions, emphasizing the importance of understanding and respecting diverse cultures.
“My travels to over 30 countries have opened my eyes to the diverse cultures, nuances of racism, and complexities of human nature. It’s not as simple as black and white; there are many shades of gray. I hope this book provides valuable insights for those exploring new destinations to navigate cultural shocks and differences.”
Beyond her memoir, Swaida is a renowned singer, actress, entrepreneur, and advocate. Under the stage name Monicazation, she has shared the stage with legendary musicians like Sunny Okosun and Evi Edna. Her creative spirit extends to acting, movie production, and business, where she serves as the CEO of an insurance company and a successful real estate mogul. Her latest movie titled Bird in A Cage, recently premiered in the United States. Tales of our Legends, a documentary on Nigerian heroes from all facets of life, also premiered this year on Amazon Prime.
They Love You Until You Start Thinking for Yourself is a must-read for anyone considering “japa” or seeking inspiration to overcome challenges and achieve their goals. Swaida’s honest and relatable account offers valuable insights and encouragement for those embarking on a similar journey.

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