The development and well-being of children are crucial for building a prosperous and harmonious society. While discussions around gender equality often focus on addressing the challenges faced by girls, it is essential not to overlook the specific needs and concerns of boys.
The boy child plays a significant role in shaping our world, and it is important to understand and support their growth, development, and rights.
We took the time to visit a secondary school and ask questions about the boy child and how their world could be shaped for good.
According to a Secondary School Counselor, Mrs Falodun Olaide Adedayo of Sanya Senior grammar school, believes that; “Considering the nature of a boy, who grows to become a man, they are not known for sharing their problems or what they go through” she encourages that (BOY-child) they should not suffer in silence bottling up their troubles which can make them a bitter person in society”.
She also told the Guardian that, they should speak out whenever they are faced with any problems or any form of abuse”.
Mr Tunde Bakare said “The boy child needs more attention on equal even with the girl child unless we will continue to have lawlessness in the society because the boy child has been neglected for far too long”
To another Female teacher Mrs Taiwo Ogbo, to her; “The Boy child also needs to be taught from the cradle which is what they are doing right now, to understand crying is part of growing too, it is alright to cry. They should also report any abuse they are passing through, to their teachers as well”
Some of the challenges today’s boy child faces also include:
Unique Challenges
Just like girls, boys face their own set of challenges as they navigate through childhood and adolescence.
Society often expects boys to conform to rigid gender norms and stereotypes that can limit their self-expression and emotional well-being. Boys may experience pressure to display toughness, suppress their emotions, or conform to certain masculine ideals. It is essential to recognize and address these challenges to foster a healthy and balanced development.
Emotional Well-being
Societal expectations often discourage boys from openly expressing their emotions, which can have detrimental effects on their mental health. Encouraging boys to embrace their emotions, teaching them emotional intelligence, and providing them with safe spaces for communication and support are crucial. By promoting emotional well-being, we help boys develop healthy relationships, empathy, and self-awareness.
Education and Learning
Education is the foundation for a successful future. However, boys may face unique academic challenges, such as higher dropout rates, learning difficulties, or societal pressure to focus on physical strength rather than intellectual pursuits.
It is important to provide equal educational opportunities for boys, encourage their academic interests, and create inclusive learning environments that cater to their needs.
Health and Physical Development
Boys’ health and physical well-being deserve equal attention. Promoting healthy lifestyles, physical activities, and proper nutrition helps in their overall growth and reduces the risk of health problems later in life.
Addressing specific health issues that affect boys, such as male-specific diseases or mental health concerns, is also crucial.
Role Models and Positive Masculinity
Boys look up to role models who embody positive qualities and values. Encouraging the representation of diverse male role models, including those who embrace empathy, compassion, and respect, helps boys develop a broader understanding of masculinity.
By challenging toxic masculinity and promoting positive role models, we create a healthier and more inclusive society.
Equal Opportunities and Gender Equality
Promoting gender equality requires addressing the needs and rights of both girls and boys.
Advocating for equal opportunities in all areas of life, including education, healthcare, employment, and decision-making, ensures that boys can flourish and contribute positively to society without facing discrimination or bias.
The boy child is an integral part of our society, and their well-being, growth, and rights should be given due attention.
By acknowledging their unique challenges, nurturing their emotional well-being, providing equal educational opportunities, prioritizing their health, and promoting positive masculinity, we create a more inclusive and equitable world for all.
Fostering the potential and ensuring the rights of the boy child is not only beneficial for their individual development but also vital for building a brighter future for generations to come.
As the world celebrates international boy child day today the world should begin especially in third-world countries, like Nigeria, where the boy has been neglected for far too long hence the need for a change.
