The title of this write up should not, therefore, be interpreted from a wrong perspective. I love women and my desire is that males should protect and care enough for them. This, however, does not mean that I should shy away from the fact that women talk more than men. Women themselves know that they talk more than men. Some people are known to have screamed at some men: “Are you a woman? You talk too much!”
So, when your wife talks too much, you should not be angry again knowing fully well that women talk more than men.
But the real point, I want to hit at in this write up is for all men to know that women are generally wired by God to talk more than men. Ah! Bishop, are you saying that God created women to be talkative? Not at all; the few women who are talkative were made so due to one situation or the other. It is a known fact that, women see things in details the way men do not. It still amazes me how my wife, and I will conduct or attend a wedding and my wife will ask me, “do you like the colour of the suit the man wore?” I will tell her that I did not take note of the colour of the suit the man wore.
If, therefore, woman sees things in details, it is also expected that she should talk in details. Since the volume of information that enters the woman and the speed at which she absorbs the information is more than that of the man, expectedly more words, more talks, more communication should come out of the woman.
In most cases when a couple visits another couple and it is time to go home, the wives are normally the last to discontinue their conversation because they have so many words to release to each other. When, therefore, during the next disagreement with your wife and she talks more than you, just relax and get amused at the diversity of God’s creation. Avoid telling her: “You talk too much.” Allow her to talk. Try to make some sense out of what you may think is nonsense. Love you!
