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Singles’ Day: 10 Real reasons Nigerians are embracing single life

By Musa Adekunle

11 November 2024   |   2:05 pm

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When it comes to relationships, everyone’s got their reasons, especially when they’re single. In a world where you’re either taken or flying solo, the solo life has its perks but also its challenges. There’s no one to laugh with over those fire selfies, nobody to ask if you’ve eaten, and, on rainy nights, it’s just…

When it comes to relationships, everyone’s got their reasons, especially when they’re single.

In a world where you’re either taken or flying solo, the solo life has its perks but also its challenges.
There’s no one to laugh with over those fire selfies, nobody to ask if you’ve eaten, and, on rainy nights, it’s just you, your thoughts, and a blanket.
Curious to know what’s keeping some people unattached, Guardian Life went out and asked 10 Nigerian singles
Here’s what they had to say:

1. Finance issues, Adebola, 30
“Finance issues is the major issue for me, girls can bill! I just want my peace, no girl, no spending of money especially during this economic situation.”
2. Too picky, Ayoola, 27
“I know I’m choosy, and I admit it probably limits my options. But hey, better to wait for someone who fits than settle. I don’t want to settle for less at all.”
3. Not getting attention, Amanda, 32
“People usually assume I’m already taken becuae of my size, so no one really asks me out. It’s like I’m wearing an ‘unavailable’ sign I didn’t even put up.”

4. focused on my hustle, Ajose, 29
“Right now, I’m all about my career and getting that money. I’ll look for love when I’ve made something of myself.”
5. Trust issues, Amaka, 27
“My last relationship was a mess of lies, so now I’m just cautious. It’s hard to let anyone in after that. My friend did me dirty.”
6. Not Sure What I Want, Adeola, 26
“I can’t even tell you if I really want a relationship or not. It’s confusing, so I’d rather just stay single for now. For me, it’s a combination of reasons. I guess when I’m ready, it’ll all fall into place.”

7. Fresh breakup, Fuhad, 25
8. “I just got out of a relationship, so I need time to heal. Jumping into something new isn’t my priority right now.”
9. Honestly, I’m confused, Adam, 29
“Love, life, all of it just feels confusing. It’s easier being single than trying to make sense of it all. People I love don’t love me in return.”
10. Just not ready, Idera, 30
“I’m working on myself. I don’t feel like I’m ready for a relationship yet, so I’m taking my time. I value my freedom and independence. For now, I just don’t want to give that up.”
So, if you find yourself wondering why it’s just you and your phone on a Friday night, maybe one of these reasons sounds familiar. And who knows, maybe the single life is just where you’re meant to be, for now.