Love and Relationships
24 Oct 2015
You never expected it! But it is really happening… You got married to a man who talked to you about anything and everything, but getting him to say a few words to you now, is like trying to squeeze blood from a stone. Why is this so? There are a bunch of reasons why your…
23 Oct 2015
You can spend your whole life looking for the man who loves you for who you truly are, knows about your oddest behaviors (that collection of ceramic pigs, your 90210 obsession, the joy you get out of dancing like a blind monkey, your odd complains, cravings and pleasures) and still accepts you, or you can pick up…
19 Oct 2015
Do you have an attitude problem? Of course not, nobody would agree to being rude, snobbish, insensitive or irrational. But at some point, you are a little bit of these things, no fault of yours. You are simply human and you can't always control all your emotions. WRONG!!! Discipline should be your friend. You should…
19 Oct 2015
It’s happened again! Another major disagreement… S/he has said something about your family, told you your life history because you didn’t do something they asked you to, in short, they’ve hurt you so bad that you just want to walk away before you do/say something that would make things worse. But it’s too late, things…
7 Oct 2015
We have all experienced it! The excruciating “talk to the hand” behavior that our partner dishes out to us after a major argument. I’m not making the assumption that you, the one reading this article, hasn’t also dished out what I like to call the “frozen moves” to their spouse. Some of us do this…
2 Oct 2015
So many factors come up when it comes to relationships and age is just another one, so you might be wondering, is age really a factor? Does it define me or who I am with at the moment? There are so many factors that come to play when it comes to relationships, background, religion, tribe,…
30 Sep 2015
I know you are probably saying to yourself, “Please ZeeZee! Why do you assume that I don’t know how to say a simple “sorry” to my spouse?” Therein lies my point. Apologizing to your spouse is actually more than saying a “simple sorry”. Yes! It is. When you’ve said/done/alluded to something you know might have…
26 Sep 2015
Dear social media, thanks to bringing the hashtag #couplegoals to light. First of all, you shouldn't aspire to be like any other couple, because you do not know half of the things they are going through as a COUPLE! That being said, back to #Couplegoals. What is really the definition of couple goals? Different people…
23 Sep 2015
It is too ridiculous to mention the number of people that email me daily telling me they made the wrong decision by marrying their spouse. Hearing their stories always does two things for me; it reminds me how much work there is to be done in reshaping people’s mindsets and it reminds me to be…
23 Sep 2015
It is indeed an art when you make decisions. A famous philosopher said ' not to choose is a choice in itself' and I couldn't agree more. So you are in a dilemma everyday of your life. To go back to bed when your alarm goes off or to go back to bed, but then…
16 Sep 2015
Before I begin coaching my clients, I always ask them why they decided to reach out to me for help with their relationships. A few reasons I get are: “I just couldn’t take it anymore ZeeZee, I was losing my mind!” “I was living in a literal hell on earth!” “I refused to believe that…
15 Sep 2015
Hey ladies, being fabulous is not easy and we all add that extra 'umph' to make sure that you look up to the part. Well, what if you found out that the men have certain issues with your weaves? Yes darling, they have issues with your Brazilian, Peruvian, Malaysian,Indian, Colombian, American, Caribbean, Mongolian and Mexican…