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How To Get A Divorcee’s Attention

By Njideka Agbo
03 October 2018   |   5:00 am
In the dating game, there are different categories of people. While the world is familiar with the singles, it takes building a relationship with the divorced a little way especially in this part of the world. This is because of the different inclinations and convictions that exists. However, if we begin to picture those who…

In the dating game, there are different categories of people. While the world is familiar with the singles, it takes building a relationship with the divorced a little way especially in this part of the world. This is because of the different inclinations and convictions that exists.

However, if we begin to picture those who are divorced as people who got into relationships that turned sour and couldn’t control it before deciding to end it, it will change our perspectives on divorcee dating game.

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While there are some who rule out completely on love, some might want to start all-over but because of their past might be reluctant or scared to.

These people usually have people who are attracted to them and would love to have something more than a friendship but don’t know how to.

If you belong to this group, here is how you do this:

Timing

Like the Bible says, there is a time for everything including a time to start delicate conversations. You have to be on the lookout to know and understand when the person is receptive to listen and that includes when they are overwhelmed by their love for you. Think of how many times you got something just because someone was happy.

Trust

People have trust issues. However, someone who is coming out of a divorce might be on the extreme end. A person such as this needs to know that he can trust you enough before there will be any form of commitment. So, start with communication building and be open to learning their love language.

With the right words and a good relationship, there will be a softening of stance on the person’s view on commitment.

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