What Makes You Tick About Him?
There are certain signs that plainly points out to a lady, if the Man she is dating is the right person for her or not. There are general qualities that make a man much more appealing, desirable as a lover, husband and much more, a life partner.
We are going to look at top best qualities other than sex; a lady should look for in a man before ever deciding to marry him. These key compasses should stand as guide to every single lady out there desiring marriage someday.
- He should share some core values with you
Values are those ‘rules of life’ that inherently guide the way you live your life. They’re deeply rooted in a person’s personal beliefs, a fundamental part to who a person is. They’re also very difficult to change. So it is easy to say that a good spiritual, emotional, physical and social connectivity with a man you wish to marry is a key indicator for long-term marital success. When you and your partner know that you are on the “same page,” you’ll feel more confident that he’s truly the man you want to marry. When you both think ahead into the marriage and know you can respect each other’s perspective on important marital issues (such as family dynamics, child rearing, finance, in-laws, roles and responsibilities), that’s the best place to start.
- He’s emotionally mature
An emotionally intelligent man who can control his impulses shows true maturity. As such, he likely has the capacity to deal with the change, disappointment, stress and conflict that life and marriage invariably can present. A well-grounded man with a sense of balance can confront life’s ups and downs “especially the downs” in a constructive manner while remaining the supportive and loving partner. Look for a man who can respond to a challenging issue responsibly, rather than reactively.
- He appreciates you regardless of your shortcomings
In marriage, appreciation goes a long way. In fact, feeling appreciated is a primary quality of happy life. If you don’t feel appreciated or loved by your man, you are messing with your future. On the other way round, when he openly appreciates you and demonstrates his respect for you, regardless of your shortcoming, know you’ll live a happy life with this man.
- He manages conflict well
Conflicts in form of arguments and disagreements are not only inevitable parts of any relationship, but also a necessary ingredient to lasting intimacy. Many couples communicate in a destructive way leading to frustration, anger, and disconnection. Many other couples avoid having meaningful discussions at all to avoid fighting. But, healthy communication is the basis of any successful relationship, and the maturity with which it is handled portrays a potential husband material.
- He is trustworthy
Trust is another key factor, in intimate relationships. It is a proactive effort, yet, it should be effortlessly so.
- He makes your relationship a priority
Any promising man understands that relationships require commitment and constant effort, more like an investment. He shows this in simple ways like; showing interest in your life, (well-being, career, happiness etc.) plans date nights to lubricate married life, and create common interests and shared activities. When your man acts in that manner, you know you have the right partner.