So sad… there is a big dilemma faced when a loved one is terminally ill. Especially if this illness was not caught early and has progressed so far that the person is now physically weak.

My advice which I hope i also can take is to accept my fate and spend the remaining days with loved ones and family making peace with everyone. Not been carried from left to right to up and down trying to find a miracle doctor. All the resources poured down the drain and the stress this poor lady would have gone through in her last days all for nothing.

Dear Nigerians let’s pay attention to our bodies especially women and at the sign of any persistent discomfort or change we should see a doctor immediately. Take a day off from work and follow through on health appointments. If unfortunately you didn’t catch it early then be practical, if you have to cut it out – CUT IT OUT! it doesn’t make you any less of a woman or man.

And yes death is scary but it is only a gateway to another journey (be it unknown) so making our peace and dying with dignity is far better than dying in fear, anxiety, family commotion, anger, regrets, hostility, confusion, etc.

I wish her farewell on the next phase of her journey and hope she found some peace just before she left.