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‘How Do I Handle This Situation?’

I DON’T know if it is proper and okay. I am 26years of age, I have a man I have been dating for quite some time now, let’s say almost two years.

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LoveI DON’T know if it is proper and okay. I am 26years of age, I have a man I have been dating for quite some time now, let’s say almost two years.

There is other guy also I would call him my best friend. I discovered, but not too sure, that I am falling in love with him. All of a sudden, I started getting so pissed when he doesn’t call me.

I feel so much insecure, I would say rather say I get so much jealous whenever I’m with him and he picks up call from other ladies, and even worst, when I see him talk to other girls. At times, it feels in me like we’re dating though.

Sometimes, during weekends, I would prefer to go out on a date with him even when my boyfriend wants to. Sometimes, we just hang around and watch a movie. But for the most part, we’re just best friends. It’s not just that, there’s a strong and deeper connection between us.

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Whenever, I don’t hang out with him, I just feel like crap. I feel as if we’re distancing when we don’t hang out, which is rare, because we see each other literally every day. I feel like he’s made such a huge impact on me but I haven’t made one of him, which just hurts.

But I have a guy who really loves me so much and is ready to do anything for me. I really feel like am cheating on him. He later found out I was always hanging out this guy, but I told him he was just a very good friend of mine. But the truth is there is this odd feeling in me, but I couldn’t tell him.

That is why I decided to publicize it, probably to get views that will help me out in this present situation. I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings.

Agness Advice: please dear readers mail your comments, reactions or true love stories, quiz or personal experience u wish to share to this email: simonclar @yahoo.com.

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