‘I Wish I Knew What Went Wrong’

I KNOW this might sound so ridiculous as I already know the answer to what I am about to ask. I have been married now to close to six years and for the recent two years past, I have been having an affair with a man who is also married with kids.

I met him on my way home after church service one Sunday. My husband had gone home with the kid and I had to stay back because I had a brief meeting. So while waiting to get a ride home after the meeting, he offered to give me a lift though I reluctantly accepted the offer. After that day we started having a chat each time we came across each other because we really do not live that far from each other. Along the line we became fond of each other and we fell in love with each other.

But his wife later found out; I don’t know how, and we had to take a break for a while and got back together after. The intriguing thing here is that I was very shocked that after he almost lost his family, he still came after me. He and his wife had to go to their marriage counselor for counsel yet he kept telling me that he loves me. I had to take a bold step to end the relationship because it was also destroying my marriage, and I realized I could not love two men at the same time.

I don’t want to hurt my husband, but I am not in love with my husband anymore, and I don’t know why.

I really wish I could do everything possible to be happy in marriage. The problem now is that I and the other man had tried to end the affair so many occasions and we always end up being together again. But this time I want to forget him. What should I do to forget him?
lade

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