Announcing your love to your husband
A man told my wife, Carol and I a story about another man, who after spending a lot of money, time and energy, lost a governorship primaries. This made him unhappy. But he has a wise wife, who knows how to show love to a man. Back home, the wife drew near her husband and with looks of love and support; she announced to her man, “if the people of this state do not want you to be their governor, you are my governor any day.” The man immediately bounced back to life.
It is possible the woman did not want her man to swim in the dirty waters of Nigeria’s politics like many wives. But to his wife, that did not matter again. All that mattered to her was to play the role God created her to play in the life of a man: “And the Lord God said it is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an HELP meet for him” Gen 2:18. She was ready to HELP her husband through good times and bad times.
Compare this with another man, who accused his wife of witchcraft and their marriage was almost collapsing. This man and his wife were known to be sound Christians of many years. What went wrong? The man complained that each time he wanted to venture into a business, the wife would always tell him that it would not work and that he would lose money and it always turned out the way she said.
And after suffering each of these huge losses, the wife would be telling him things like these; “when I advise you, you won’t listen. Can you now see where your actions have placed us financially?” And other such bad words. This was why the man concluded that the wife was a witch, who prevented the businesses from succeeding, as delighted in mocking him each time he failed. A wife should learn to hail her husband and bring out the man in him.
The first woman announced her love to her man during periods of failure, while the other woman did not. The desire of a normal man is to be great and when he has a wife that knows how to massage his ego and fill his love tank with encouraging words, such as, “I can see the seed of greatness in you, and I know you will make it one day.” “You will be a great man, my lovely husband, you will be a successful man…” And when he is going out to work in the morning, rather than reminding him of the bills to be paid or problems on ground, the last words he should hear from you are words like: “my husband, may God be with you as you go to work. May you conquer and never be conquered.” “May you take steps towards greater heights today,” “My husband, I love you and God be with you.” Such a man will feel loved and energised.
Apart from cuddling your husband at home, kissing him, giving him good sex, etc, one of the best ways wise women announce their love to their husbands is by loving their husbands’ work and fanatically and lovingly cheering them on. Men feel highly loved, when their wives extend a great portion of their love to the work they do. Every husband needs a fan at home, not an opponent.
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