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Evidence of wrong relationship 2019 – Part 6


Solomon Ojigiri

It is not true love to be deceptive. The people of the world believe that they cannot woo a man or a lady without lying or giving impressions that they have what they do not have, or that they are what they are not. Some will tell you of their very close relatives in the U.S. or U.K., but the truth is that the very person they are talking about does not even know them. Some might even tell you that their parents are who they are not. There is no need for lies, deceit, flatteries or exaggerations in relationship. Let people get connected to you for who you are, not for who you are not. No matter how long, the truth must be uncovered, whether now or later. You will lose your respect and dignity, when people discover that you are lying or you gave false impressions about who you are. Someone claiming that he is what he is not has a greater issue he or she is trying to cover up. Telling lies is a proof of greater problems within.

The law enforcement agents usually arrest people for impersonation, and God also punishes those who lie and live in falsehood. There is no need to give an impression that you have rich parents, when you do not have one. Anyone who cannot accept you the way you are does not really deserve you. You must refuse to lie. Apostle Paul admonished the believers in Eph. 4:25 thus; “Therefore putting away lying, let each one of you speak truth with his neighbour, for we are members of one another.” God detests falsehood but loves people of integrity. No matter how many years of falsehood, I encourage you to put the devil to shame by making restitutions. Confess and say the truth to the people you have lied to. Hear what the Bible says “Mine eyes [shall be] upon the faithful of the land, that they may dwell with me: he that walketh in a perfect way, he shall serve me. He that worketh deceit shall not dwell within my house: he that telleth lies shall not tarry in my sight.

I will early destroy all the wicked of the land; that I may cut off all wicked doers from the city of the LORD. Psalm 101:6-8 (KJV).” I advise you to discontinue at whatever stage of your courtship, once you establish that the person you are going out with is a liar or if that person is given to deceptions.


Relationship where pregnancy is a pre-condition for marriage: God is a God of order and sequence. God is not happy when we do things haphazardly, or when we decide to jump the gun. God is always happy when He sees His children doing the right thing at the right time, or when we follow the right order and wait for His appointed time. Unfortunately in our generation, some parents see pregnancy as a condition that must be met before marriage. I also learnt that sometimes, people are afraid that the lady might not be pregnant in marriage because of suspicion, possibly about the past of the lady. Whatever the case, I have heard about a lady who got pregnant like that before wedding day but lost the pregnancy three months after the wedding. Does it mean they will divorce and get her pregnant again before they could consider her for marriage? That is nothing but a wrong relationship. Pregnancy must not come before the wedding. It is supposed to come up after.

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