For many parents, home is supposed to be the safest place—a refuge where children are raised with love, discipline and the hope that they will one day become their greatest source of pride.
But in parts of Adamawa state, that sense of security appears to be under threat as a disturbing pattern of young men allegedly turning against their own parents begins to emerge.
While security operatives in the state have succeeded in bringing cases of theft, armed robbery and other crimes down to relatively low levels, recent incidents involving children allegedly attacking or killing their parents have raised fresh concerns.
The development has also become a source of worry for the police, who are now investigating separate cases involving young men accused of violence against their parents.
One of the most disturbing cases involved 32-year-old Peter Michael Sinamai, a resident of Sangere Quarters in Gombi local government council, who was arrested for allegedly killing his biological father and dumping his remains in a well.
Before the dust could settle on that case, another incident was reported in Mayo-Belwa local government area, where 20-year-old John Mamud was arrested for allegedly assaulting his mother at their residence in Konan Kuka.
Speaking exclusively at the Adamawa state Police Command headquarters in Yola, Mamud admitted to assaulting his mother and appealed for forgiveness, blaming anger and a troubled family relationship for his actions.
According to him, tensions in the family had been building for some time, particularly over his father’s alleged treatment of his wife.
“I married and brought my wife to the house. My father had never liked her. He beat her countless times, and I even had to take her for treatment the last time,” he said.
Mamud said his anger boiled over on the day of the incident after he returned home tired and under the influence of alcohol and drugs.
He alleged that he found his father lying outside the house and, overwhelmed by anger, attacked him with a stick.
“I was overwhelmed by anger. I came back home tired and drunk. I met him lying outside the house. I became angry and used a stick on his head twice,” he said.
Unlike the case involving Sinamai, Mamud’s account concerned an alleged assault on his mother, and the police said investigations into the matter were ongoing.
The suspect, however, expressed regret over his actions. “I regret my actions now. I am pleading with society to forgive me, and I ask my immediate family to have mercy on me. I know I have done wrong,” he said.
The separate case involving Sinamai has generated particular concern because of the alleged attempt to conceal the crime.
According to the Police Public Relations Officer, Suleiman Yahaya Nguroje, Sinamai allegedly killed his father and dumped the corpse in a well in an attempt to prevent suspicion from falling on him.
Nguroje said police operatives moved swiftly after receiving a complaint from a good Samaritan in the community, leading to the suspect’s arrest.
He said the suspect would be charged to court after the conclusion of interrogation and other aspects of the investigation.
The police spokesman also said the suspect would undergo medical examination, noting that the circumstances surrounding the alleged killing had left members of the community struggling to understand how a son could deliberately take the life of his father.
The state Police Command said investigations into Mamud’s case had also commenced following a complaint over the alleged assault on his mother.
Nguroje said the commissioner of police had directed that the matter be thoroughly investigated and that the suspect would be charged to court upon completion of the investigation.
The command condemned all forms of domestic violence and reaffirmed its commitment to protecting vulnerable people, particularly women and elderly members of families.
It also urged members of the public to report domestic violence and other threats within families to the nearest police station before disagreements escalate into tragedy.
For families already struggling with conflict, the recent cases offer a grim reminder that violence at home can sometimes begin with anger, resentment and unresolved disputes before eventually taking a far more dangerous turn.
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