Finding love in the age of social media

We live in an age where anything is possible, including finding love on social media. Your perfect love may just be one notification away. But hey, it’s not all roses and romantic playlists. Social media has turned love into a full-blown adventure, and honestly, It’s a mix of sweet thrills and premium wahala. Simple advice? shoot your shot in the DMs. See how you can do this without getting your heart bruised.

Do more than just “hi!” in DMs

There is no such things as writing love letters or poems all for love. People are busy chasing money! So, you may actually offend your partner if all you do is write love letters and send poems (some still really love such epic romance though).

Now, it’s all about that perfect DM. But let’s be real–sending a bland “Hey” isn’t it. Instead, be cool and clever. Did their profile say they love art? Complement the art and of course, let the conversation start from there. Don’t just send a ‘hi’ and leave it at that— it’s the fastest way to getting ignored or blocked- ASAP!

Be a little stingy with your likes and comments

My friend, I know you are love-struck right now and probably wants to get noticed by your crush. But hey, you have to be stingy a bit with your comments and likes– It’s just strategy!

Liking someone’s post is basically saying, “I see you, and I like it.” But don’t overdo it, please. If you’re liking all posts, even posts from 2018, you’re officially a creep. Sprinkle those likes strategically, and if you’re bold, drop a comment. Something fun and flirty, like “Where’s my invite to this adventure?” can work wonders.

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And you know what? Try pretending to be busy. Don’t reply almost immediately so your crush don’t think you’re jobless. You know everything reads meanings and this phase, partners just want to get to know you–don’t flop.

To post or not to post- your choice

You officially got a yes from your partner and things are moving well? Great job! Right now, posting your boo or bae on your timeline is the ultimate “soft launch.” But be careful –the streets are watching! If you’re going public, make sure the relationship is solid. We don’t want you to explain later “We’ve decided to go our separate ways” after a breakup. Besides, how many times would we congratulate you on your new found love? Keep it classy, or better yet, keep it private if that’s your style.

Ask questions

In this age of social media, you need a lot of talking and clarifications before someone uses you to hold on for another. “So, what are we?” is the anthem of the talking stage. Please, don’t be too classy to ask. If you’re tired of endless chats that go nowhere, set boundaries. Ask questions, define what you’re looking for, and don’t waste time on someone who replies with just “LOL.” after you’ve given all to the relationship. Life is short – so find someone who’s ready to match your vibe and meet your expectations.

Spot the red flags

On social media, everyone’s a star. But if your partner’s stories are all parties and no substance, or they’re always tagged by “friends” in drama, chaotic posts, bad energy comments, it’s a red flag. Trust your instincts – if something feels off, it probably is. Love shouldn’t come with unnecessary stress and headaches.

Be real with your love

Yes, social media is fun, but real-life connections are unbeatable. Plan actual dates, share real laughs, and put your phone down when you’re together. The strongest relationships happen when the Wi-Fi is off.