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How to be a good guest when living rent-free

By Musa Adekunle

19 December 2024   |   12:27 pm

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Living rent-free as an adult can come with its challenges, no matter how kind or accommodating your host might be. To keep the peace and avoid conflicts, there are certain unwritten rules you should follow. After all, being a great guest isn’t just about enjoying free shelter, it’s about showing gratitude and respect. Here are…

Living rent-free as an adult can come with its challenges, no matter how kind or accommodating your host might be. To keep the peace and avoid conflicts, there are certain unwritten rules you should follow. After all, being a great guest isn’t just about enjoying free shelter, it’s about showing gratitude and respect.

Here are five golden rules for being the ideal guest:

1. Help out, even if they don’t ask

When your host says, “Don’t bother,” don’t take it at face value. Whether it’s washing dishes, sweeping the floor, or tidying up, take the initiative to help with house chores. Your host will notice and appreciate your effort, even if they don’t say it outright. A little help goes a long way in showing you’re not just freeloading.

2. Respect their house rules

Every home has its own vibe. Some people are strict about saving electricity, others can’t stand shoes on their carpets, and some hate eating in the bedroom. Pay attention to these preferences and follow them. It’s their house, their rules—no debate. If they value something, respecting it will show you’re considerate and mature.

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3. Keep your curiosity in check

For the professional snoopers out there, let this sink in: don’t go through your host’s private areas. Stay away from drawers, closets, and anything that doesn’t belong to you. Nobody wants to feel like they’re living with someone they can’t trust. If in doubt, remember these three words: mind your business.

4. Don’t finish the last bite

No matter how tempting that last piece of chicken or apple in the fridge may be, resist the urge. Always ask your host before eating the last of anything in the house. It’s a small courtesy that avoids unnecessary tension and shows that you’re thoughtful about shared resources.

5. Contribute in small ways

You may not be paying rent, but pitching in with small contributions makes a big difference. On your way home, pick up a loaf of bread, some fruits, or any groceries you know the house might need. These gestures show gratitude and reassure your host that you’re not just a taker.

Gratitude goes a long way

Living rent-free as an adult isn’t easy, but neither is hosting someone for free. A little consideration and effort on your part can make the experience better for both you and your host. Follow these rules, and you’ll not only avoid conflicts but also strengthen your bond with your host.

Being a good guest isn’t about grand gestures, it’s the small, thoughtful actions that truly matter.