RE- ‘I Placed A Curse On My Ex- Boyfriend’

Hi, I am Simon Ajayi by name. I read your story online and decided to contribute since you requested for that. The truth is that forgiveness is not just a mere pronunciation of the word ‘I forgive you’ but rather an act of meditation and solicitation for God to also forgive that person you have forgiven.

Yes, Mike made a big mistake from the onset which he has realised now, but you yourself made a bigger mistake for placing a serious course on him. God is a merciful God and also a just God. If you have forgiven him just as you said you have, why not publicly declare or reverse the curse into blessing?

He may be too prude or ignorant to go to that same office to confess, but on your part you have to reverse the course and leave his confession to God. Because I believe that that same word you said at the office 10 years is enough to make your mouth-spoken forgiveness null and void now.But I beg you in God’s name to call him and reverse those words/curse on him and bless him. Who knows, that might also be your own avenue of an open heaven. Shalom!

Simon Ajayi

I read your story on above and would like to refer you to the following pieces of advice by Pat Robertson of THE 700 CLUB on Forgiveness which is key to unlocking God’s miracle power.

Robertson said and I quote: “Finally, there has to be forgiveness for anybody else who has ever done anything against you (Mathew 5:23-24).  It may be that your resentment is justified.  The person may have done a very evil, terrible thing to you.  You may have every legal and intellectual right to hold a grudge and to hate that person.  But if you want to see miracles in your life, it is absolutely imperative that you forgive.

“Forgive to the point where you actually feel yourself cleansed of resentment and bitterness and are actually praying for them.  If you do not, the lack of forgiveness will make it impossible for God to forgive you (Mathew 6:14-15, 18:21-35; Mark 11:25).  Every miracle depends 100 percent on your relationship to God the Father.  That relationship is built strictly on the strength of His forgiveness of your sin.”

My sister, you will gain nothing by insisting that your ex-boyfriend go back to his former place of work and tell them that he lied against you.

Remain blessed as you forgive.
Yours In-Christ,

Yakubu Afenoko Innocent
writes from afenokoyakubu@yahoo.com

Dear Writer,
Thanks for your pathetic story. I must admit that it is full of lessons the public should learn.

In my advice, it should be striking to note that forgiving Mike without conditions attached is divine.

In your prayers that night, it was just you and your God as you prayed; your ogas were not there. And if you are persuaded to think or believe that your words that night have affected Mike negatively, then you can as well reverse your words, forgive Mike without calling your then ogas to witness the occasion.

It can be between you, Mike’s wife and a Pastor of your choice. Let God be your guide and witness.
This is my piece of advice.