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Evidence of wrong relationship 2019 – Part 2


Solomon Ojigiri

The Psalmist says, “I will hear what God the Lord will speak, for He will speak peace unto His people and to his saints, but let them not turn again to folly” (Ps. 85:8).

The peace of God must be there if He is really involved. Whatever the way you claimed to have been led by God, the peace of God must be the umpire. Even if someone claims that he heard an audible voice from God, it is not as important as the peace of God in your spirit. Please, be very careful and exercise a lot of caution, when you discover that you have suddenly lost your peace over any issue.

A relationship where you have retreated as an inferior person


It is a wrong relationship where there is no sense of equality with your partner. A relationship that will metamorphose into a blissful marriage must necessarily start and continue on the basis of equality.

Where there is no sense of equality, you are either treated as inferior or you are the one treating another person as a lesser being or an inferior personality. It is nothing but a wrong relationship, when it is obvious that you are just managing the person or the person seems to be managing you or where either of you is just enduring the relationship. It is an indication that the relationship is the wrong one. Some people would say they want to manage someone because to them, half bread is better than none.

A lady once told me she was in a relationship with a man she did not like. She complained that the guy’s head was too big. But I told her she was not supposed to marry a man she did not like or appreciate, but she felt the time was not on her side, that she was going to “manage” the man. That is not a good decision at all.

Marriage is not to be endured, but to be enjoyed. Marry someone you can joyfully and happily live with, the remaining years of your life. You know you are supposed to live together till death do you part. He or she will be the first and the last person you will see each day of your life. Mind you, your children will also resemble the man you marry. Therefore, marry someone you are sure you can be married to forever. Someone you are excited about.

Refuse to allow anyone to “manage” you and do not accept to “manage” anyone. You are not inferior, you are special; you are unique. Always remember that in the economy of God, there will always be room to make a choice. So, do not be too desperate to make a choice. If you do not see someone you really love and appreciate now, please wait till you come in contact with one. Proverbs 27:7 says, “The full soul loathed a honeycomb, but to the hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet.” When you are desperate, you will be blindfolded to obvious danger signals. You will only be moved by emotions without reasoning.

Rev. Solomon Ojigiri
Contact: Everwinning Faith Ministries Int’l
31, Oritse Street, off Awolowo Way, Balogun B/stop, Ikeja, Lagos.
Or Everwinning Faith Ministries Int’l
Everwinning Faith Avenue, White sand, Isheri-Osun,
(after Ijegun) Lagos
08023997277, 08059203554.

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