Bishop Charles Ighele
Handling a crying wife
It is a universal fact that women cry, and this gets on the nerves of most husbands. Many husbands do not know what to do with a crying wife.
Men who tell their wives, ‘I am the head of this house’ - Part 2
I am sorry that I could not explain to you why I could not continue with the part 2 of this write up last Sunday, as I said. The spiritual and emotional mood that engulfed Nigeria, due to the #EndSARS protests...
Do you still enjoy kissing your spouse?
My wife, Carol’s parents were quite romantic but my parents were not. I never saw my father and my mother hold each other any day or tell each other, “I love you.”
Behaving as superior partner in your marriage
I had cause to advise a lady, who was about to get married, sometime ago. It was very easy for me to see that she felt superior to her man. How did I know? Through the way she kept criticising and correcting the young man.
When your spouse refuses to apologise
We must not assume that our partners will always know when they are wrong. It can really be painful, when you expect an apology from your partner and none comes.
Stopping the family blame game
As a marriage and family counsellor, one of the major problems we deal with in many families is that of blame.
Handling family mood swings
A wise person once said: “The necessity of seeing lies in the ability of seeing well.” I have come across many husbands, who do not even notice when their wives...
How to teach your spouse table manners
About two or three months after our wedding in 1986, my wife, Carol and I were having our evening meal, chatting on the dinner table, when she told me that my chewing was too loud.