Bishop Charles Ighele
Before there can be reconciliation and peace, you should first of all acknowledge the source of the problem.
In my article in this column, last Sunday, which was titled, “When a woman queries her husband,” I wrote towards the end that I would go to the exclusive WhatsApp page I share with my wife and daughters nicknamed..
No nation develops above its culture. Culture is a very powerful thing. So powerful that it is what determines how we live our lives. Nations and tribes have their own cultures.
The purpose of marriage is first for companionship before other things. But some people are not seeing it that way.
The “tank” where eaten food is stored in the body is the stomach. There are, however, other “tanks” such as the “love tank,” which is not physical. The word “love tank” is used by marriage counselors worldwide.
Wisdom demands that people know how to adjust in life. Apostle Paul said he knew how to enjoy when there was abundance, and adjust when there was little.
I have told people who come to me for counselling that there is no such thing as “I did not know.” The truth is that the signs are always there and they will always be there, showing that the person coming your way for marriage is a terrible person.
Sometime ago, I wrote an article in this column titled LIVING WITH A WIFE WHO BEARS MALICE. I am happy about the response I got from readers.
A certain man and his wife were known to always quarrel to the point that each time they started, the children in the neighbourhood would be mimicking the things the couple said.
The purpose of marriage is first for companionship before other things. But some people are not seeing it that way. The first thing is to have a strong relationship and then other things will follow.
13 Dec 2020
I will never forget something that happened many years ago. However, I will tell the story in such a manner that those who know them will NEVER know whom I am writing about.