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If Your Man is Cheating, Look At Your Four Closest Friends – Kenyan Pastor

Robert Burale

Robert Burale | Nairobi Wire

Pastor Robert Burale who is a transformational speaker, image consultant, trainer, Minister of the Gospel among other things has said that women are their own worst enemies when it comes to cheating as men don’t cheat on themselves.

The city preacher made this known while speaking out against infidelity in relationships as he said that women whose partners are cheating need to check their closest friends.


He apportioned blame to both men and women for the rise of infidelity but asked women whose spouses are cheating to suspect their four closest friends.

Burale said during ‘Mancave Discussion’ on Switch TV:

“I blame both men and women because the man is cheating with another woman. Women have become their own worst enemies. Chances are very high that if your man is cheating on you look at your four closest friends.

“I’ll tell you that without fear of contradiction or batting an eyelid. The person who is the most dangerous is the one you trust. It is the one you run to and say these are the issues I’m going through. She is the one who befriends you to cover up what she is doing with your husband. Not always but in most cases yes.”

Robert Burale

Robert Burale | Nairobi Wire

When asked for advice by a woman whose husband doesn’t open up to her but confides in another woman instead, Burale broached the subject of emotional cheating.

The former Fashion Watch panelist at Citizen TV said:

“Emotional cheating is one of the most powerful things. Let me tell every woman today, when your man finds comfort in another woman even if they haven’t slept together, that’s so powerful. Negatively so.”

Burale further advised women in such situations to confront their men instead of going after the other woman. According to him, some men often keep things to themselves to avoid appearing vulnerable while others do so when they have done something they don’t want their partner to find out.

He added:

“For someone to say he loves and respects me that’s why he keeps it away from me, the fact that a man cheats on you shows he does not love and respect you. It comes a time when you have to put your foot down.

“In this day and age there are diseases and the worst thing is you walking with your husband or wife and the people who are sleeping with you are there saying you look good together. Protect your home because the moment you introduce two or three people that becomes a coalition government.”

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