Never Blame A Man For Ruining Your Life – Kenyan Singer Tells Single Mothers
39-year-old Esther Akoth better known as Akothee has schooled women not to hold men responsible for their failures.
Akothee who is a well known Kenyan philanthropist, songwriter, dancer and entrepreneur charged women to wait until the right man comes along before getting pregnant.
Doing this she says will help them avoid ending up with deadbeat partners.
The founder and CEO of Akothee Safaris, a tour company based in Kenya, took to her Instagram and wrote:
“Never blame a man for ruining your life. Your life is in your hands and the power is in between your legs, engage your brain and disconnect your heart for now and think straight. A man can impregnate up to 100 women in a year, but 100 women can only get pregnant once a year! So as a woman, having a child is basically your choice, in this age and era, there is no accident in getting pregnant!”
‘The president of single mothers,’ as she prides herself went on to educate women about single motherhood as she adds:
“If so, all slay queens including me, would be pregnant by now, just imagine if all the men I dated convinced me to have a child for them. After Oyoo I would end up with a whole nursery school…” she wrote.
The mother of five explained that women should invest to secure their children’s future and avoid the drama that comes with baby daddies.
“If you want a child, then invest first. I have no time to chase you around from one court to the other, from another lawyer to a counsellor, it’s better to tell you ‘no’ now than to chase you later.
“There is no baby mama who ever moves on as long as we have a child with you. Responsibilities never move on until the child attains an age where he can fend for himself. We just put on a strong face, but that thing hits badly below the belt.”
Recently, Akothee made it known that she would like a sixth child with no strings attached.
“I will also have a baby and I don’t want a commitment with anyone, I am not ready to settle down, I am still very young, but number six is a must. We the independent women, also have choices (follow me at your own risk). I am looking for baby daddy number six; we won’t date, just a baby, period. No strings attached.”