In a culture where many see pastors as stoic and strictly spiritual, these men of God are redefining what it means to be both anointed and affectionate. They are not only generals in the faith but kings in their homes; men who don’t just preach about love, but actively live it.

From surprise gifts and kisses on the altar to poetic public tributes and spontaneous hugs during service, these pastors have proven that loving your spouse publicly is not just acceptable but powerful. At a time when marriage crises are rampant, their intentionality has become a blueprint for godly romance. They’re showing that a solid marriage doesn’t dim your calling, it strengthens it.

Here are 7 Nigerian pastors who have shown the world that PDA (Public Display of Affection) is not carnal when it’s covenantal. Get ready to blush, smile, and maybe shed a tear

Pastor Korede Komaiya – The Firebrand Lover Boy

Known for his apostolic grace and fiery preaching, Pastor Korede Komaiya of The Master’s Place International Church is not only a spiritual powerhouse in the pulpit but also a passionate lover at home. Married to his heartthrob, Pastor Esther Komaiya, for 27 years, Pastor KK wears his love boldly and proudly.

From affectionate stage cuddles during ministrations to heartfelt tributes in church services, where he fondly calls her “my baby” and “my girl”, he never holds back in celebrating his queen. One of his most iconic lines, often met with cheers, remains: “I don’t know about you, but I’ve got a baby!”

A moment that broke the internet was when Pastor KK paused mid-sermon to surprise his wife with a bouquet, his eyes brimming with tears as he recounted their love journey. “After Jesus, she’s the best thing that ever happened to me,” he said.

Those who follow his ministry closely know that Pastor KK is not just a preacher; he’s a living love manual. With his depth of wisdom on marriage, love, and family, it’s a wonder he and his soft-spoken, graceful wife haven’t taken up the official title of “Love Coach or Relationship Experts”

Whether he’s serenading her with heartfelt, sometimes romantically charged poems, or simply holding her hand in public with pride, one thing is clear, Pastor Korede Komaiya is a firebrand lover boy, and Pastor Esther is the muse of his life’s most beautiful symphony.

Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo – The Love & Relationship Guru

If you know Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, you know he doesn’t just preach love, he lives it. As a renowned relationship coach and founder of David’s Christian Centre, his partnership with his equally brilliant wife, Pastor Mildred Okonkwo, is the very definition of “doing life together.”

From love-soaked Instagram videos of their vacations to open PDA on stage, like that time he playfully kissed her forehead after a joint message, Pastor K keeps the spark alive. His posts regularly feature words like “She’s still the sugar in my tea, the fire in my bones.” What a man!

Rev. Biodun Fatoyinbo – Class, Swag, and a Love Story

Rev. Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA (Commonwealth of Zion Assembly) and his wife, Modele, are known for exuding class, style, and unmistakable chemistry.

Whether he’s holding her hand in church or serenading her with a live band at their anniversary dinner, Rev. B consistently raises the bar for public affection done with honor. He fondly calls her “Sweetheart”, not just as a nickname, but as a title wrapped in reverence and deep devotion. In one of his most stirring tributes, he shared how her presence pierces through his masculine walls, reaches the softest parts of his heart, and makes even the hardest days feel like a walk in the park.

He often declares, “When she took her first breath, the full package of my life partner arrived on Earth.” She is, in his words, his backbone, his peace, and the most beautiful woman alive.

Together, they are a shining example to young couples everywhere, that you can love God passionately, live with excellence, exude class and style, and still carry yourselves with purity, poise, and power. Rev B doesn’t just love his wife, he honours her as a divine gift. That’s authentic COZA-style romance: sincere, elegant, and kingdom-centered.

Pastor Jerry Eze – Mr. “What God Cannot Do Does Not Exist”… in Love Too!

The convener of the New Season Prophetic Prayers and Declarations (NSPPD), Pastor Jerry Eze, is widely celebrated for his prophetic ministry but his heartwarming love for his wife, Pastor Eno Jerry, is equally prophetic.

He once posted a tearjerking video of him praying and crying over her at a church conference, captioning it, “You are God’s answer to my prayer. My greatest intercessor and cheerleader.” On her birthday, he wrote a poetic tribute that melted the internet. Their frequent side hugs during service, coordinated outfits, and shared ministry moments show a deep connection that inspires thousands.

Pastor (Dr) Paul Enenche – Passionate on the Pulpit and in Love

Pastor Paul Enenche of Dunamis International Gospel Centre is another spiritual giant whose love for his wife, Dr. Becky Enenche, is beautiful to behold.

In one viral video, he paused mid-sermon to walk over and give her a hug, saying: “My doctor, my partner in destiny. Everything I am today, I owe to your quiet strength.” Their matching outfits, shared musical moments (as both love worship), and calm affection reflect a deep, enduring love that continues to inspire younger couples.

Pastor Bolaji Idowu – The Modern-Day Gentleman Pastor

Pastor Bolaji of Harvesters International Christian Centre is one of the most vibrant preachers in Nigeria and his modern-day love language is refreshing.

From surprise anniversary trips to public love notes on social media, he often uses his platform to celebrate his wife, Omowunmi. His caption game is strong: “If I ever doubted God’s love, you’re my proof.” In one service, he asked her to stand while the congregation gave her a thunderous ovation. “She’s my first member, best intercessor, and greatest inspiration,” he said. Talk about romantic leadership!

Pastor Emmanuel Iren – A Testament to Love and Partnership

Pastor Emmanuel Iren, the Lead Pastor and Founder of Celebration Church International (CCI), is renowned not only for his dynamic preaching but also for his heartfelt expressions of love towards his wife, Pastor Laju Iren.

He often describes their decade-long marriage as a “delightful adventure,” expressing gratitude for the years spent together and hope for many more to come.

Pastor Emmanuel doesn’t shy away from expressing his affection publicly. In an Instagram post, he shared a photo of his wife with the caption, “Whose wife is this?! Everyone stand still for Laju Iren. Wife of my youth (and old age).

In a world where many think pastors can’t be romantic, these men of God are proving otherwise. Their openness about love, affection, and intentionality in marriage reminds us that love is God-ordained and it can be beautiful, fun, and expressive.

Who’s your favourite romantic pastor on this list? Did we miss anyone? Drop your thoughts in the comments.