Everything used to be great and we both used to be positive about the pregnancy. We were really happy.

She said she basically has no feelings for me anymore and refuses to talk.

A few weeks ago after she told me this, we did talk briefly, but she got angry and refused to talk about it. It is really weighing me down.
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She said she would give it another week. We went to the cinema last night on the condition that I didn’t talk about ‘us.’

For the first half of the film, she wouldn’t let me touch her, then towards the end, she kissed me and held my hand.

I sent her a text this morning asking if things were starting to get better and she said she still doesn’t feel anything.

I asked her why she hasn’t ended the relationship if she doesn’t think she would ever have feelings for me again, she replied that should not be bothered to explain.

I personally think it is down to hormones and that right now she is just up and down; hence why she hasn’t ended it, although she constantly tells me it is not hormones and that she cannot help how she feels.

I am really having a nightmare here, because I care about her so much. I am trying to give her space, as this cannot be good for the pregnancy.

I realises that she is going through a lot of changes and she is going to be exhausted and hormonal. I just don’t know if she will ever go back to being the person she used to be.

-Jake

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