ALMOST the same thing happened to me, and I tried to get her back. Although she still liked me and missed me, she refused to get back together. I felt pretty shitty for about a month, but a friend of mine told me that I just need to get over her since she doesn’t love me anymore and doesn’t want to spend time with me anymore.

I think hearing that just made something click inside my head, because I felt a lot better after that. I didn’t miss her at all and I was just focused on moving on and learning from my experiences. It also really helped me to get over her when she told me exactly why she broke up with me. I felt more at ease knowing her reasons, even if I didn’t like them.

So that’s my advice: just move on and don’t waste another minute waiting for her since she probably won’t come back. She said that her love faded and there’s not much you can do about that. Any attempt that you make to try and get her back will make you seem desperate and will sacrifice your dignity. Have enough confidence that you’ll be fine without her, and don’t forget that there are plenty of other women for you to date.