“Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional”- Unknown Someone said: “If you never heal from what hurt you, you’ll bleed on people who didn’t cut you.” We must stop killing good relationships around us by transferring aggression to others. Hurt feelings are inevitable in relationships and are bound to arise in a fast-paced world of imperfect…
Different rules for boys and girls
On September 23rd last month at the 92nd and Y theater in New York, there was already a crowd outside lining up to get in as early as 8AM. It was the first day of the 73rd UN General Assembly side events, and if you thought there was a long human traffic line to get…
What did Africa do?
But I have a serious question, and this is it: “What Did Africa Do?” In the last three years, I have had the opportunity to visit some parts of Abuja and Lagos, for some of my Girls Education projects, but more recently, to speak to kids about the power of media,....
My dream commonwealth
I have heard of the word Commonwealth before, but right now, it has a new and seriously cool meaning because of my dad. We left our hotel in Lagos last month back to my project site, and he asked the gentleman driving us to pull over because he needed to get more phone cards. I…
The journey to self-discovery and success
In the journey to self-discovery, it is very important to understand what success is. In today’s world a good percentage of people define success as having lots of money in their bank account, being on the cover of magazines, becoming famous and so much more. Before I became a Life Coach, I studied Civil Engineering…
Dear African leaders, education vs schooling
Hello everyone and happy new year to you all. I hope it is already a fantastic new year for you, as we slowly go towards the end of the first month of 2018. I have been away for a while from writing, because it was a very busy second half of 2017 for me. I…
Seven behaviour successful people adopt from eagles
There are many things we can learn from nature, but most times, we tend not to pay attention to what we can learn from nature. One unique creature that successful people learn from is the eagle.
25 must haves to become wealthy
A very important thing to note is that true wealth is in the service to humanity. The hidden riches of secret places, is in the need of humanity. When you find a solution to a problem, the money will emerge, find a problem and solve it.
Six powerful principles of wealth creation
Wealth is also as a result of the function of your network. Your network determines your net worth. The quality of the value you provide and the quality of your relationships ultimately determines your net worth.
Maybe success is a chameleon, after all
Challenges will always arise - Whatever you become successful at, there will always be bumps and hiccups along the way, things to learn and practice, and most certainly some failures to move beyond.