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What Makes Men Fall In Love?

Remember the intro to D’banj’s classic, “Fall in love”? The song is summarised on one sentence, “Don’t get it twisted, love is a beautiful thing.” In the song, he, an alpha male, falls in love and everyone around now knows that “water don pass garri.”

While we know that he has fallen for her, this article is about what went on behind the scenes. So what makes men fall in love? When you think about it, it is about one of the most intriguing questions that can make you ponder.

This is highly contrasting to the belief that men are simple creatures right? Now to the main question: How do you read him and react to make him notice and fall in love with you easily.


Here is a high possibility that taking these steps will help you:

Physical Appearance

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No matter how intelligent or how beautiful you are, men are visual creatures. Except on rare occasions when they hear what you have to say before placing the face, men like to see things that appeal to their eyes. This does not mean that you should go uncladed. Instead, where clothes that scream confident, sexy and in charge. So girl, let your hair and your guard down.


We cannot emphasise this enough. Just as men are visual creatures, women are words inclined. However, everyone needs to be reassured no matter how distant they may seem. And because falling in love is not as easy as it seems, getting a man to say “I love you” is not an easy task. So take it slow, use the right words and he will convince himself he has fallen in love with you.

To know these words, read up on the love and relationships category on the Guardian Life page.


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