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No partner? No problem! Fun ways to enjoy Valentine’s Day alone

By Musa Adekunle

12 February 2025   |   10:49 am

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Valentine’s Day is usually about couples, with romantic dinners, flowers, and social media love posts. But what if you are single? Does that mean you have to feel left out? Not at all Being single on Valentine’s Day is a great opportunity to focus on yourself, have fun, and enjoy your own company. Instead of…

Valentine’s Day is usually about couples, with romantic dinners, flowers, and social media love posts. But what if you are single? Does that mean you have to feel left out?

Not at all

Being single on Valentine’s Day is a great opportunity to focus on yourself, have fun, and enjoy your own company. Instead of seeing it as a lonely day, turn it into a time for self-care and relaxation. Here are some exciting ways to make the most of the day.

1. Treat yourself to a nice meal
A romantic dinner does not have to be for two. Take yourself out to a good restaurant, order your favourite meal, and enjoy the experience. If sitting alone feels uncomfortable, bring a book or listen to music while you eat.

If you would rather stay at home, order food from a top restaurant, set the table, light some candles, and enjoy a fancy meal in your pyjamas.

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2. Have a self-care day
Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to pamper yourself. Take a warm bath, apply a face mask, and wear your most comfortable clothes. You can also do any of the following.

• Watch your favourite movies without distractions.
• Stay off social media and just relax.
• Do something that makes you feel good and stress-free.

3. Take yourself out on a fun date
You do not need a partner to go on a date. Plan an activity that makes you happy.

• Visit a café and try a new drink.
• Attend a fitness class such as dance, yoga, or any activity that excites you.
• Watch a movie at the cinema and pick the one you really want to see.
• Sign up for a cooking or art class and learn something new.
• Trying something different will make the day special.

4. Go on a solo trip or staycation
If you want a change of environment, plan a short trip. A night in a hotel or a quiet day at the beach can make you feel refreshed.

Travelling alone means you can do whatever you want at your own pace. You decide what to eat, where to go, and how to spend your time.

5. Buy yourself a gift
There is nothing wrong with buying yourself a Valentine’s gift. Treat yourself to something special, whether it is a perfume, a new outfit, or a beautiful bouquet of flowers.
You deserve to be spoiled too.

6. Celebrate with friends
If you do not want to spend the day alone, invite your single friends and have fun together. You can do any of the following.

• Watch movies as a group.
• Host a dinner where everyone brings a meal.
• Enjoy a game night with laughter and good vibes.
• Sing your heart out at karaoke with your favourite songs.
• Love is not only about romance. Friendships also matter and should be celebrated.

Final thoughts

Valentine’s Day is not just for couples. Whether you choose to go out, stay in, or have fun with friends, the most important thing is to enjoy the day in a way that makes you happy. Spend time with yourself, do what you love, and make the most of the moment.