Dos and don’ts for attending Nigerian owambe parties

Owambe! The very word ignites visions of glitz, glamour, and serious energy on the dancefloor. Nigerian parties are not just events; they’re cultural experiences filled with fashion, food, and fantastic vibes. But if you want to truly pepper them and blend in seamlessly, there are some unwritten rules you must follow. These rules subscribe to weddings, birthdays, or naming ceremonies. First, see the dos:

Rock your Asoebi stylishly

When the celebrants send out their asoebi (uniform fabric), grab yours as soon as possible! Tailor it into a killer style that screams, “I didn’t come to play.”Make it dramatic. It may be Boubou or a sleek senator outfit, just make sure you look on point. You don’t want to show up looking like the “before” in a makeover ad.

2. Arrive fashionably late (but not too late)

The phrase Nigerian time exists for a reason. Showing up an hour or two after the stated time is perfectly acceptable. But don’t overdo it—arriving when the party is already winding down might earn you some serious side-eye from Aunties.

3. Gift money tastefully

Spraying naira notes on the dancefloor is a big no. However, you can gift the celebrant money via transfer, enveloped or dropping it in a box. While you don’t need to bring your life savings to the party, having a few crisp notes to gift the celebrant will instantly earn you cool points. Remember, don’t be stingy or dramatic—find the balance.

4. Eat in moderation

No Owambe is complete without the jollof rice that slaps. Queue politely (if there’s a queue) and ensure you enjoy the culinary delights without causing a commotion. It’s party food, so don’t expect to eat for three days. Be contented with whatever is served.

5. Don’t be shy to join the dancefloor

This is where the magic happens! When the DJ drops hits from Burna Boy, Wizkid, or Ayra Starr, don’t stay glued to your seat. Even if your moves are more “shaku” than “zanku,” the effort counts. Just have fun!

Network as you have fun

Owambes aren’t just about food and dancing; they’re also prime networking opportunities. Meet people, exchange contacts, and build connections—who knows, your next big break could come from a conversation at an Owambe!

Now that you know just what to do at any owambe event, check what you shouldn’t do as a baddie social butterfly:

Don’t ignore the dress code

If the invite says “white and gold,” don’t show up in neon green. Owambe is all about uniformity and coordination, so respect the dress code. Nothing screams newbie louder than looking out of place.

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Don’t hoard party souvenirs

We know the souvenirs are a highlight—customised cups, hand fans, or even flasks. But grabbing extras meant for other guests is a quick way to embarrass yourself. Collect yours gracefully and leave the rest for others.

Don’t gatecrash the VIP area

Every Owambe has that sacred space reserved for the celebrants’ closest friends and family. Unless you have an invite, stay in your lane. Crashing the VIP area for selfies or extra food will make you look unserious.

Don’t overindulge in drinks

Yes, the bar might be open, and yes, the cocktails might be calling your name. But remember, no one wants to babysit an overly drunk guest. Sip responsibly and keep your composure intact.

Owambes are the heartbeat of Nigerian celebrations, and when done right, they’re unforgettable. Follow these dos and don’ts, and you’ll not only blend in but stand out in the best way possible. Now, what’s the next party on your radar? Let’s hear it!