Why are the ‘Ember’ months so scary?

The ‘ember’ months—September, October, November, and December—are the last four months of the year, most of which end with ‘-ember’.

These months are often shrouded in misconceptions, myths, superstitions, and beliefs that have given them a reputation for being ominous.

However, it is important to note that beliefs can shape our perceptions, often leading us to anticipate unnecessary dangers. Various factors contribute to the fear surrounding the ‘ember’ months.

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Therefore, it’s important to address these beliefs while being mindful of our actions and thoughts during this period. By understanding these beliefs and taking the right steps, you can navigate the ‘ember’ months with confidence and clarity.

The Notion of bad luck

One of the most prevalent beliefs associated with the ‘ember’ months is the notion of bad luck. This fear is so pervasive that it often causes anxiety and distraction, reinforcing the belief that these months are fraught with misfortune.

There is a widespread perception that, during these months, calamities occur more frequently than at other times of the year.

 Increased Accidents

The number of accidents tends to spike during the ‘ember’ months. This rise is largely due to the increase in festive activities such as Christmas celebrations, end-of-year parties, school parties, and get-togethers, which are all celebrated around the world. These events lead to heavier traffic, which in turn leads to an increase in careless driving.

The Guardian reported that Mrs. Temitope Oseni, the Ijako Unit Commander of Ogun Traffic Compliance and Enforcement Agencies (TRACE), highlighted the belief in “an evil force” responsible for accidents during the ember months and appealed to the citizens to avoid reckless driving and adhere to safety protocols.

Mounting Debt
Everyone wants to meet up with societal expectations. As a result, this pressure pushes people to overextend themselves financially during the ember months.

Many resort to borrowing beyond their means to cover various expenses, including school fees, festive preparations, and other necessities, which can result in mounting debt.

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How to navigate the Ember months

Stay optimistic: No matter the superstitions or beliefs, avoid dwelling on negative thoughts. What you believe can often manifest in reality, so maintaining a positive outlook is essential. Avoid carelessness: Endeavour to do everything with caution and carefulness, especially when it comes to spending and decision-making. Carelessness can lead to unnecessary risks and regrets.

Learn to save: During the ember months, the prices of goods tend to increase significantly. And so, to ensure your ‘steez’ is still maintained without being overwhelmed by costs, cultivate a habit of saving and prudent financial planning. By understanding these points and preparing accordingly, you can confidently navigate the ember months without falling prey to myths and misconceptions.