Tradition and your expression of love
When my mother died in the early 90s at the age of 60, I did not know it would have so much effect on my father, who was then 68.
Creating family memories
About twenty sticks of suya with nice chunks of meat were on the central table in our living room last Sunday evening. There were also different types of snacks and “soft” drinks.
Living with an emotionally wounded spouse
About twenty years ago, I bought a book written by a pastor about the relationship he had with his dog. He said he was so close to his dog that if he went swimming with his dog and drifted towards the deep end of the water...
Basic rules of apology
My wife and I recently came up with a book titled, HOW TO APOLOGIZE PROPERLY TO YOUR SPOUSE. In this write up, I like to share with you...
When a woman takes her man out
Many months ago, my wife and I went straight from church to a restaurant somewhere in Ikeja GRA, Lagos. As we were waiting for the food we ordered, a very elderly couple walked in.
When your spouse is a sympathy seeker
In marriage, it is good for a wife to study her husband, so that she will have enough knowledge of how to live with him. It is also good for a husband to study his wife, so that he will know how to live with her.
Marrying someone too strong for you
After taking a good look at the lady one of his sons wanted to marry, my father-in-law, Bishop Michael Marioghae (of sweet memories) told him “this girl is too strong for you.” He married someone else.
Too tired when your children need you?
Some months back, we had a guest in our home. When we got home after one of the services, she saw that I looked tired. On getting home, our grand-children were all over the place playing until their parents will come to take them to their home many kilometers....
Should children love or fear their fathers?
One of the areas, where as a marriage counsellor, I have found the largest percentage of dysfunctional relationships, is the relationship between the father and the child. In the average home, the children are closer to their mothers and prefer to crack jokes and spend time ....