Should you allow your spouse to sleep when you cannot sleep after a quarrel?
One of the casualties of an unsettled quarrel is sleep. One lies on the far west of the bed, while the other lies on the far east, each meditating on the “words of the quarrel” and the next line of action. Your spouse might have said nasty things. Do not take these words to heart.
When your wife talks too much
I do not intend using this article to insult females, never. In fact, one of the scriptures that has guided my life is 1Peter 3: 7, which says “husbands, likewise...
When a lady thinks she is not beautiful enough
Some years ago, a young undergraduate wanted to see me after a Sunday service. When we got talking, she told me that she is not beautiful enough. Right there and then, I beckoned to my wife Carol to come over and the first thing Carol said was “you are very beautiful.
Is separate church for youths necessary ?
Despite having big auditoria to cater for their teeming members, some churches still operate a separate wing for their young ones.
Fighting marital battles you cannot win
In his book titled: THE ART OF WAR, Sun Tzu, the ancient Chinese writer wrote, “choose your battles wisely. Do not fight battles you cannot win.” I believe that this piece of advice by Sun Tzu can be applied by couples.
Who initiates romance in a marriage?
I was not the romantic type when I got married to Carol. During our courtship, we had discussions on the pet name we should call ourselves.
Let her breasts satisfy you
A few people may wonder why I am writing about breasts on the pages of a newspaper. As I look through my Bible, I found out that the breasts of a woman are romantically talked about.
The age to get married
Age is not the issue. EMOTIONAL MATURITY is the key. There has been no mention of age in the Bible, not because it is unimportant, but because the purposes of God exceed age and outer appearances and instead focus on the inner state of the person.
Loving the problem child
I usually smile, when I think of my growing up years. I was a very good boy, until I went to secondary school. My parents sent me to an all boys boarding school owned by the Anglican Church in 1969.