Love & Life

This is my personal experience I am sharing. I started dating a lady when she was about 17 years of age. That was in 2009. I trusted her more than anybody else in my life. I cheated on her and when she got to find out, we went our separate ways for some time. I…

I am queen, a 23-year-old student in desperate need of advice. This is the first time I have a committed relationship with a man, who is 27 years old. Currently, we are on a break, because our arguments were becoming very heated and physical. A few weeks ago, he literally punched me in the face…

Hi, I am Nikki. I am in my early 30s and single. There is this guy I have been dating for a while and I love him so much. However, I had sex with his older brother 10 years ago when I was really loose. His brother and I messed around twice for money and…

This is not a good sign; she has a right to her feelings, but in the end, it not healthy for you, as it relates to living together. This much, I will share with you. Never think about change when it comes on to a relationship. What you see is what you get; people do…

I almost cheated on my spouse. I walked away from the man I almost slept with because I realised how much I truly loved my spouse. I made the mistake of telling my spouse about this "almost" incident. Now, he refuses to talk to me and he wants to separate. He said he couldn't look…

Truth doesn't always set you free. I had a similar experience, I was very honest with my boyfriend about past relationships and life in general, because, as I told him, there was nothing in my life for which I felt ashamed of. I had a beautiful life, with all pain and breakups involved. It's part…

Your husband’s behaviour is driven by two different, but very powerful, emotions: attachment and sexual desire. (In all likelihood, you husband is deeply attached to you. He wants you in his life and he draws comfort and security from your relationship. At the same time, however, sexual desire is a very powerful motivator and more…

If you want to succeed in today’s world, you have to become an expert in your chosen field. Besides, never assume that you’re stuck with the way things are. Life changes everyday and so can you. The consistency of your rituals will make you an expert in your field if action is taken over time.…

I was actually dating this lady from the eastern part of Nigeria. Immediately after my youth service, barely a year into our relationship, she was then working as a sales rep in one of the business organisation in Balogun Street on Lagos Island and Trade Fare Complex, all of a sudden, she started going home…

I met my husband in school, we were so glued to each other that we saw each other vitually everyday, though we never had sexual intercourse, after much frustration and accusation of him not wanting me. After four years or so, he got sick and in the midst of it, he thought it was time…

I am a 25-year-old guy. My girlfriend and I were in a long distance relationship. During the first semester in school (this was almost three months long), things seemed bearable and it seemed like the long distance wouldn’t be a problem, because I could travel home about once a month, but now, I feel things…

My wife and I had been in a relationship for six years and married for two years. Last week, I met an old school friend at a reunion party and we drank lot of alcohol and I got intimate with her and it happened on one night only. I felt so guilty, so I told…