Most ladies do not know how to treat the man in their lives. Last week we talked about “Respecting Your Man” which I’m sure you learnt a lot from. I don’t mean to sound like a broken record but treating the opposite sex is so simple, it’s as easy as ABC. I am sure you’ve heard of the saying “treat others as you want to be treated”, so there you go. It is that easy.

I want you to sit back and think of the cutest, tallest, hunkiest guy in your life right now. What if I told you he could be yours? I could teach you how to make an alpha male want to chase you, instead of the other way around? Maybe your friends would be really jealous of you. That is pretty normal. Maybe other guys would be really jealous of you, and want you all to themselves, too. Or maybe you would simply enjoy every moment you would spend with each other, with lots of hugging, kissing, and you-know-what.

Now let us snap back to reality. What is your relationship with your man really like? Does he even see you as one of his closest friends? Does he even see you as an Acquaintance? If you are like most women, then the cutest, tallest, hunkiest guy in your life right now is probably out of your reach somehow. Maybe out of your league. Maybe too high up to notice you. Or maybe you are just in his friend zone. That is just sad. But here is the thing: What if I told you that he could be yours and what if I told you that I could teach you a way to make him the most desirable guy in your life – not just notice you but actually chase you and want you all to himself?

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Here’s the thing: I believe every woman has the potential to attract, catch, and keep alpha males – strong, capable, determined, mature, loving and of course, yummy men. The reason we miss out on alpha males and why they end up with women who totally do not deserve them is because of two things.

There are two things that turn the alpha male off. The first thing is this: Some women think they “do not deserve” an alpha male. So when they meet a smart, attractive, friendly, absolutely hunky guy, and they feel their hearts flutter when he smiles at them: in their minds, they tell themselves: “Girl! Stop fooling yourself! You’re probably not his type, so stop thinking silly things.” Even when the guy shows he obviously likes spending time with them, they still tell themselves: “Oh dear, I think he really likes me but nope, nope. I am not the “alpha female” type. I probably should not get my hopes up…”

I mean, hello! He is right there in front of you, totally available for the taking and you are telling yourself you do not “deserve” him? It is like you are invited to a five-course dinner, but you settle for yam and akara because you think it is “all you deserve.” Absolutely crazy.

The second thing that turns off alpha males. It is the exact opposite of thinking you “do not deserve” a good guy. Instead, you’d do absolutely anything to make a guy you like, like you back. Many of us do this. We think that the more we please him, the more he will like us and the more likely he will pursue a relationship with us. Unfortunately, that is not true. Have you ever given a man gifts, done him favours, or even given him free sex only to lose him to another woman soon after?

That is the thing about alpha males (and other smart, attractive, successful guys). They are used to having women trying to please and impress them. So what would he think when you come along, trying to please or impress him? Exactly. He will think, “Oh, great. Here is another one.” And you go straight to his friend zone.

So how do you win the heart of a strong, successful, responsible man? I’ll get to the answer shortly. But here is the thing: Most women think that to win an alpha male, you have to be an “alpha female.” Unfortunately, this is yet another misconception. I have met several “alpha couples and believe me, it is a relationship that is far from ideal. In fact, pairing an alpha male and an alpha female is like putting a time bomb together. Their personalities clash so badly that it is just a matter of time before the whole thing blows up. So if alpha males do not like alpha females, what kind of women do they want?

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What kind of woman rocks an alpha male’s world? Here’s the answer. Ever heard of the age-old saying, “Behind every great man is a great woman?” that is the kind of woman he wants.

Basically, she is the kind of woman who helps him achieve everything he wants to achieve in the world, and more and is sensual enough to make him want to come home to her every single night. He wants the kind of woman who is:
– Confident
– Has total control over her life
– Can get what she wants
– Understands male psychology
– Makes him want to work harder
– Supportive and respectful
– Sexy, sensual, and seductive

Now, let me ask you, are you that kind of woman? If not, then you should be all these things I listed above and more.

To our happiness. Cheers.