We all love to be with a successful man don’t we? A successful man is the object of almost every single woman’s desire. But where do you find one and how can one capture his attention? Often this is the first question myself and my girlfriends talk about when we meet to gossip.

So today we are going to start by looking at what makes a man successful.

*He’s smart with intelligence that gives him an edge. *He’s highly skilled at what he does which is why he excels.
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*He’s not afraid of hard work or putting in the hours. *He’s focused, confident and knows what he wants. Which is a good start.

Now you can boil down much of a man’s success (or a woman’s) to confidence. This is the quality that helps him take charge and make things happen. It’s the characteristic that allows him to persuade others to work with him or take his side. His confidence makes him a good leader which is why others look to him for direction. He has charisma which is why he stands out and is so damned attractive. Right? Now how can you use this knowledge to your advantage? Let’s look at where you stand. How strong is your confidence? My bet is you are very confident about anything to do with your career. Your achievements speak for themselves and you are respected and admired for them. But what about your confidence with men romantically? I am sure that it might not be nearly as strong and that is the one thing a successful man looks for in a romantic partner. I need you to be very careful not to misunderstand what I mean. First, it’s not about your independence. That can actually be a turn off if not handled carefully. Being staunchly independent sends a message that you DON’T NEED A MAN. Of course that is true; you can take care of yourself. But if you want to be in a relationship, the right man wants to feel needed just like you do. That’s not “needy” but needed.

Most successful men like smart women who are achievers, but they do not want to compete with you. Nothing shuts down romance faster than a competitive business spirit between a man and a woman. If you rely on your business skills to get the ball rolling with him, you can say goodbye to being seen as a woman with relationship potential.

So now where should your confidence be visible? For you to be able to attract a successful man, you need to feel confident in your desirability as a woman. Relying on your feminine charm or allure is the secret to attracting the alpha male. Your feminine charm has to do with how you value yourself as a romantic partner.
When you value yourself as a woman, you expect to be treated well, right?

You won’t put up with a man texting and not asking you out, last minute cancellations or sporadic contact. You don’t waste energy getting angry either. You simply move on knowing a better man is out there for you. Isn’t it?
When You Value Yourself as a Woman, You Take Good Care of Yourself.

You honor yourself with self care and time for you no matter how busy your schedule gets. To manage stress and treat yourself well, you might get a massage, get your nails done, take a bubble bath, work out or curl up with a good book or a gossip magazine to unwind.
When You Value Yourself as a Woman, You Don’t Chase Men

Whether they appear interested or have lost interest, you let them go while maintaining your dignity. You know you deserve better. You understand that a man who is genuinely interested will move heaven and earth to spend time with you no matter how busy he is. He won’t leave you hanging or wondering.
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Your feminine charm is irresistible to successful men because you bring out their masculine side. That is the basis for magnetic attraction. It’s not about making things happen. The magic of romance shows up as you allow him to pursue you during the initial phase of dating. He is drawn in by your confidence about being a desirable woman who knows her value.

So there it is. The secret to what successful men want resides in your innate feminine charm, something every woman has. To attract a quality man, let go of your business skills when interacting with him. And don’t brag about your self sufficiency. Successful men are seeking the balance a feminine woman provides. Rely on the alluring power of your unique feminine presence because successful men find that practically irresistible. Trust me.

To our happiness. Cheers.