Some people see woman’s independence as threat – Influencer Demure

Some people see woman’s independence as threat – Influencer Demure

Nneamaka Oghenetejiri Solomon

Lagos-based influencer and entrepreneur , popularly known as Demure, has built a strong following by advocating for intentional living, self-sufficiency, and modern motherhood. However, she acknowledges that a woman’s independence is not always welcomed by society.

Nneamaka Oghenetejiri Solomon

“There is nothing dangerous about being self-sufficient, but it does require confidence and the ability to filter out noise from people who think a woman should always be dependent,” Demure stated, addressing the challenges independent women face.

With over 262,000 followers on Instagram and 66,400 on TikTok, Demure has become a leading voice in lifestyle, fashion, and parenting since she began content creation in 2018. She seamlessly blends career and motherhood, sharing her journey as a single mother to her son, Firefunmi while collaborating with brands like BozJewelry, Chivita, AddMe, Indomie, and Makari.

Beyond brand partnerships, she is passionate about helping small businesses grow, offering marketing and campaign management services. She also co-owns a hair brand and envisions establishing her own marketing agency in the future.

But Demure’s influence extends beyond digital platforms. She actively volunteers with the Jarriah Sickle Cell Foundation, contributing to advocacy and community service efforts.

On the issue of cyberbullying, Demure emphasizes the importance of resilience. “People hide behind screens to project their insecurities onto others. My advice is to block, delete, and move on. Engaging only gives them power,” she advises, encouraging victims to build strong real-life support systems.

Through storytelling, entrepreneurship, and philanthropy, Demure is redefining what it means to be an independent woman, proving that strength and self-sufficiency are not threats—but forces for change.