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Women seek to break inter-generational bias, barriers

By Ijeoma Thomas-Odia
04 June 2022   |   2:33 am
With conversations around bias and barriers women face in different spheres of life, more women are enjoined to reach their full potential and achieve significant success despite the hurdles they encounter.

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With conversations around bias and barriers women face in different spheres of life, more women are enjoined to reach their full potential and achieve significant success despite the hurdles they encounter.

 
Being the thrust of a webinar where five peakers shared their experiences, Education and Development Practitioner, Motunrayo Fatoke, who is in her 20s, said the issues around gender biases were still much around the country in spite of the level of advocacy done overtime.

According to her, she used to work in an organisation where opportunities were dennied her due to the fact that she was a young lady and not because she wasn’t competent enough.

In some cases, she was even more qualified than her male counterpaerts, yet she would not grab the opporunuty. She said, “Everytime, I have to double up my work and show up extra just to prove that I am competent enough to get the job done. It’s just sad that with the level of exposure we’ve had as a people, I still have to deal with these issues. Overtime, I’ve realised that women should be assertive, but then, you come off as being rude or arrogant.”
  
In her 30s, Programme Manager with Liberty TV/Radio, Kano, Khadija Bawas, said northern Nigeria is the most sentimental region when it comes to gender issues and was largely because of the high level of illiteracy among women as well as the negative social norms and religious misconceptions.

 
“I currently work in Kano. I’m 30 and I’m expected to have children in a normal northern Nigeria status. So, every time I am asked why I am living alone. At my job, I still face bias. I’m the head of the programmes department but during a board meeting, my male subordinates speak before they ask me if I even have anything to say.

“It was after I corrected it that they started following the hierarchy. So, many other experiences, but breaking the bias needs extra efforts as a woman and how I’m able to overcome them most times, was standing strong.”
 
For the convener of the webinar and development expert, Joy Aderele, who is in her 40s, she said women have to prove themselves over again to be taken seriously. On roles, responsibilities and time use, women are mostly confined to household chores that consume their time.
  
“Women access and control over resources are mostly limited. They constantly have to overcome the barriers in owning assets like land properties, even to rent a house as a single lady today, some house owners would ask you to bring a man. This is very wrong, but it is the reality that women combat everyday.”
 
An international development expert and Deputy Head, Conflict, Stability and Security Fund, Foreign Commonwealth and Development Office, Sharon Ayeni, in her 50s said that having been born and bred in London, black women also face biases.

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“I’ve encountered bias as a black woman working in the white space for 31 years. Many times, I felt excluded. Going back from the start of my career, I was young and coming from a working-class background, I often didn’t feel fit.”
 
She, however, stressed that grace, growth and giving back helped her overcome the biases and barriers. Hence, women should be authentic, continually grow their leadership skills, build resilience, character competence and support other women.
 
In her opinion, social development expert Felicia Onibon, in her 60s said, “One thing I find common in both men and women in this country is the issue of patriarchy. It is still very strong and it affects the way people make decisions on who leads who. Some men would rather have an incompetent person sit on the table than to have an intelligent woman who has all it takes.”
  
“The biases we experience today is so sad that those who lead us do not want to understand that if women should hold good positions in the leadership of this country, we will move forward.

“So, the issue of inclusion and biases has its own roots from different categories. The biases women face stems from the economic hardship and I’m talking about the 75 per cent that live in the rural communities that do not have academic and educational privileges.”

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