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Reasons Single Ladies Of Our Time Will Never Get Married


Photo: jesupdoctor

Photo: jesupdoctor

HEY ladies, a friend of mine actually sent me this piece and I just thought to share with you, for those that do not have access to Internet. This is so true and all that was said has been going through my mind for quite a while now.

For a woman that has reached the dating stage and then settling down, a lot really goes down. It has not been easy for the single ones yet to settle and when they eventually settle, it is a different ball game entirely.

This news piece gives a detailed account of why many young ladies and even the old ones are still single or will even remain single for a long time.

I urge you to read on and pay attention to every detail here. Enjoy!

Many ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure.
It is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel.

Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset if it is not how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?

Many ladies of nowadays dislike cooking and doing home chores
This is mainly just because they have been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family.

Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a man to desire to marry her when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than a helper for himself?

Modern fashion and craze for gadgets is a great barrier to most ladies finding love and marriage
How do we explain a single lady whose only desire in life is to acquire the latest clothes in town, the latest mobile phones and ipads to the detriment of her woman worth?

How can a single lady maintain this lifestyle for long without bowing low to immoral lifestyle?

How do you expect a man from a responsible family background, and who is in his right senses, to propose marriage to a lady whose utmost desire and concern in life is to acquire costly electronic gadgets, clothes, jewellery, perfume, name them?

Of course, majority of men would like to date such a trendy lady for fun and show-off, but would not want to propose marriage, even if she is earning the money herself, because her expensive lifestyle already is a big turn off to most responsible, serious-minded single men.

Only men that are out to catch fun will be closely attracted to her, and her chances of getting a marriage proposal from them is as slim as a camel passing through the eye of a needle.

Hmmm. So true!

Excessive make-up turns most decent and serious-minded men off
If you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive make-up, and more do not even like it at all.

Excessive make-up makes you look like an Egyptian Mummy. A slight make-up is okay, but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, as it will attract better, decent and serious-minded men.

This is true, unless you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

Now, this is so common these days with young girls and women at large. They wear too much darn make-up that makes them look alike. Even to the point that you don’t even recognise yourself after you have taken them off.

Allow your face breathe from time to time. I know a lot of ladies use make-up to cover the flaws on their faces, but most of these products being used actually cause discolouration, acne or spots.

The less covering of your pores, the better the chances of your face looking good and then you do not need to wear make up all the time, looking like a mummy or scaring the guy you had a hot date with the night before away when he wakes up beside you the next morning.

Isn’t that is terrifying.

Cut down your participation in social network sites
If possible, limit your use of facebook and twitter accounts, because they may be doing you more harm than good, which you would not know until you hit 35 years plus and still single and searching.

No man would want to marry a lady who jumps from one social network site to another, because it is a clear sign of an unfaithful lady or about to be unfaithful lady. Yes, that is how men view it!

Who are you to have thousands of friends on facebook, same on twitter, maybe on Whatsapp, 2go, twoo, BBM, badoo, eskimi and you are not a celebrity? HIAN!

Stop giving your phone number out to every Tom, Dick and Harry
No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls.

You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.

You do not bring any value into the life of men you date or are dating
Because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her does not mean it will work for you that way.

Think and work towards equipping yourself, so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to.

Adding value to his life is not by giving him money or material gifts, nope. It is good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support and by not just being a liability that only brings requests and problems to be solved.

Have you heard ladies? Be someone that adds value, not someone that depends on men for everything.

Be independent, smart and intelligent. Be yourself and believe in yourself, have self-respect, be confident and most of all, love yourself.

With all these, you will attract the right man and being single may just turn to getting married very soon.

To the loving relationship we all deserve, good luck in life and love.

  • Friday Onoja

    Most ladies have chosen to be single for life. Why, situation where some of them displays their phone number on social site for guyz to reach them as if they have a job for them is worrisome. Job indeed because no man will like to meet them w/out having an affair with them, and not only having an affair with them alone but go about passing their Number to the male friends to do the same with them and knowing fully well that this guyz have no plan of marriage with them but just to take them to bed. I pity many of them

  • Odada

    This is great! It so true, real, and clear as crystal! I’m a man; I wish everybody can have access to read this! Many thanks to the writter!!!!