Oluwadamilola Comfort Odeyemi, widely known as Damilola GlowVille or DamiGlow, is a certified relationship and marriage counselor, speaker, author, and content creator. As the visionary behind The DamiGlow Brand, she blends faith and emotional intelligence to help individuals and couples cultivate intentional relationships and build marriages rooted in legacy.
In this interview with Esther Ijewere, Damilola shares her journey, the principles that guide her work, and practical tools for nurturing love, healing, and connection.

The Spark Behind Her Counseling Journey
My passion for relationship coaching stemmed from a burden I carried after seeing so many couples struggle silently. These were well-meaning individuals lacking the right tools to make their relationships thrive. What began as a desire to offer advice has grown into a full-fledged platform, The DamiGlow Brand, that empowers singles and couples with faith-based strategies, emotional intelligence, and timeless truths. My ultimate vision? To help people build marriages that endure and homes where love is healing.”

Making Marriage Joyful and Intentional
Fun in marriage doesn’t come from elaborate getaways, It’s about shared moments and mutual care. Intentionality is everything. Love can’t grow on autopilot. Even with busy schedules, couples can reconnect through small but powerful habits—praying together in the morning, lunch break check-ins, date nights, or dancing in the kitchen. The joy of marriage lies in laughter, meaningful conversations, and emotional safety.”

Understanding Conflict and Navigating It Gracefully
Many conflicts arise not from what is said, but how it’s said. Unmet expectations and emotional wounds often go unaddressed. The way forward is to prioritize understanding over winning. Key tools include active listening, tone awareness, emotional honesty, and choosing the right timing. Faith and prayer also play a powerful role in diffusing tension.

Her Book: Fight Like A Winner
Damilola’s book, Fight Like A Winner: A Simple Guide to Conflict Resolution in Relationships and Marriages, offers a practical framework for handling disagreements with grace. This book isn’t just for resolving conflict, it’s about protecting your relationship through it. I share strategies like setting ground rules, using time-outs during heated moments, and ending every disagreement with love and unity. It’s a guide to turning arguments into a deeper connection.

Available on Amazon and Selar, Fight Like A Winner equips readers with the tools to navigate tough conversations while safeguarding emotional intimacy.

Managing Disagreements and Strengthening Bonds
The core principle is simple, don’t fight to win, fight to protect the relationship. Pause before reacting, clarify your intentions, and stay focused on finding solutions. When couples shift their mindset from confrontation to collaboration, conflict becomes a bridge, not a wall.

For Singles Preparing for Marriage
Slow down and build wisely. Marriage requires more than just love, it demands emotional maturity, compatibility, shared values, and faith. Take time to heal from past wounds, grow in self-awareness, and choose someone whose commitment mirrors yours. Proper preparation is the foundation of long-term peace.”

Emotional Intimacy: The Hidden Power of Connection
Emotional intimacy is what binds relationships over time. It’s about feeling seen, safe, and supported. You can cultivate it through vulnerability, empathy, and being fully present. A simple, heartfelt 10-minute conversation can be more powerful than a fancy date night.

A Story of Restoration and Hope
I once worked with a couple on the brink of separation. They were emotionally distant and constantly at odds. Through counseling, they learned how to express their needs without blame and rebuild trust with grace and accountability. Today, they’re stronger than ever, and they’re now mentoring others. That’s the ripple effect I strive for.

Why Communication is Everything
Communication is the heartbeat of every healthy relationship. I encourage couples to use tools like ‘I Statements’ (e.g., ‘I feel… when…’), emotional check-ins, and communication charts to stay connected. But more importantly, listen not just to reply, but to truly understand.

What Makes Damilola a Woman of Rubies
I believe I’m a Woman of Rubies because I’m deeply committed to strengthening the very foundation of society, our families. Through counseling and education, I’m helping people build relationships their children will look up to. My legacy is rooted in love, communication, and joy in marriage, not survival, but thriving.

Women Who Inspire Her
Modupe Dorcas Ogundele (Her Mother): “She taught me the essence of faith and sacrificial love.”
Debola Deji-Kurunmi & Priscilla Shirer: “Their faith-driven boldness and clarity in teaching have shaped my journey.”
Michelle Obama: “For showing us how to balance grace, strength, and unwavering devotion to family.”