Getting married with an income of N45,000
It is just a matter of a man “cutting his coat according to his cloth.” One of the most important financial laws is that a person should NEVER spend more than what he or she earns.
Marrying the carton or marrying the content
At a stage in my life as a very young man, my values began to change. I became mature. I began to like less the things I liked more and began to like more the things I liked less.
Your spouse’s powerful friends
One of the big lessons I learnt early in my life is that I should not have friends that are more powerful than me. I am not talking about mentors. My mentors can and should be more powerful than me.
My spouse, my friend
One of the reasons God created marriage was for companionship and friendship, and not just for procreation alone. God saw that man was lonely in the Garden of Eden, so He created the woman to be his companion and friend.
Quarreling in front of your children
A young man was seen beating his wife and when some neighbours confronted him, he said he did not see anything wrong in beating his wife, because he had seen his mother beaten by his father.
Stay attractive in the bedroom
Over the years, I have had cause to visit some couples in their homes and I never liked the way some of them dressed at home. Imagine a man and the wife welcoming me to their home, with the man either tying a wrapper, wearing a pair of trousers or boxers and the wife tying a faded wrapper...
Living with your partner’s irritating habits - Part 2
In your marriage, I pray that God will give you the wisdom to lovingly change the changeable habits of your spouse and the wisdom and patience to allow the mannerisms you cannot change be a source of AMUSEMENT to you and not irritate you.
Living with your partner’s irritating habits
Two of my wife’s siblings are very funny people. Each time they come to our home in Lagos, they thrill us with laughter. For the about eight days that one of them was with us this month, dinner time in my home was more exciting.