Hi, I am Nikki. I am in my early 30s and single. There is this guy I have been dating for a while and I love him so much. However, I had sex with his older brother 10 years ago when I was really loose. His brother and I messed around twice for money and…

A lady's message to me actually informed this discourse. Read her first… “When I turned 39, a few years back (following numerous sad experiences with men) I made up my mind to try for a baby-as a single mum. A friend in particular (although married) even offered to help me out. And also be there…

The purpose of marriage is first for companionship before other things. But some people are not seeing it that way. The first thing is to have a strong relationship and then other things will follow. Adam and Eve were first together before they were blessed by God. Never see your spouse as a mistake, no…

A woman complained bitterly to me some time ago. In her opinion, her husband has, after a few years of marriage, turned into a hard-hearted man. Her reason was that, anytime she made a request, he either turned it down outright or granted it grudgingly or unhappily. Such common requests as feeding allowance or notification…

Readiness is an act of vigilance. Every man with the intention of achieving success must be prepared to embrace in order to arrive at desired result. In Christendom, watchfulness must be characteristic of everyone striving to make heaven, because the hour and the time the Trumpet shall sound for the rapture is not known. So,…

I had cause to advise a lady who was about to get married sometime ago. It was very easy for me to see that she felt superior to him. How did I know? Through the way she kept criticising...

We hear much of the disputes and failures going on in families and communities. But what can we learn from what goes right in successful relationships? Thus, we shall discuss here some secrets of successful relationships in families and communities. The first rule of creating successful families is commitment to family unity. Husbands and wives…

After singing ‘Assurance’ for and presenting a sports car to his girlfriend Chioma to mark her birthday, hip hop superstar Davido has revealed he wants to spend the rest of his life with her. Taking to Instagram over the weekend, Davido posted a picture of Chioma, who goes by the name ChefChi, on Instagram. “The…

Your husband’s behaviour is driven by two different, but very powerful, emotions: attachment and sexual desire. (In all likelihood, you husband is deeply attached to you. He wants you in his life and he draws comfort and security from your relationship. At the same time, however, sexual desire is a very powerful motivator and more…

Even if marriage is sometimes more a bed of nails than roses, living into old age with a partner may help ward off heart disease and stroke, researchers said Tuesday. The findings were revealed after a sweeping survey of research conducted over the last two decades covering more than two million people aged 42 to…

Pastor Fred Odekhian of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Court of His Majesty, yesterday, advised fathers to live responsibly and shun divorce in order to raise morally upright children. Odekhian gave the advice during the commemoration of Fathers’ Day with the theme: ‘Understanding Manhood: Fatherhood’, at Abesan Estate, Ipaja, Lagos State. He said the…

If you spend any amount of time engaging others on relationships and marriage, you may get the sense that there is only one acceptable kind of wife. She looks a certain way, behaves a certain way, and is great at certain things. Any woman who does not fit into this mould is not “wife material”.…